I am a Christian woman; the only reason I have not said "godly" is because I feel like I would be bragging on myself if I said that. To be called a godly woman is a great honor, I believe. Anyway, I digress. Lately I have been thinking about modesty and the trials men go through with temptation. I know that both women and men are called to modesty, but for the purposes of this post, I'm just talking about female modesty.
I like to dress attractively, I won't lie. I used to not be so good about buying shirts that didn't show cleavage, but I've never had a problem with short shorts or dresses because I was never comfortable with them to begin with. However, in the past year or two, I've grown more mature, I guess, and I have gotten better at covering up even more.
I like to show my figure, though. I have learned to love my body -- really! -- and I have a desire, a strong one, mind you, for others to see. Mainly men. So I wear things that are flattering. But I can't help feeling that this desire is selfish and sinful. Sure, every women was created to love and to desire love and pursuit, and I don't believe that is wrong in and of itself. But how far is too far? I think about how I look a lot, not particularly because I'm insecure, like I used to be, but mostly because I'm constantly thinking about what men see. More Here...