Wednesday, 21 December 2011

  • The Pursuit of Happiness Falls Short

    Christians who live in the United States often value what the country values. That's often a very good thing but sometimes it's a very bad thing. There are yet other times in which such values simply fall short of the expectations of scripture. Many of us over-value the pursuit of happiness which is such a prevalent value for those in the United States. Everyone wants to be happy. In a lot of ways this is a noble value to embrace but if we are not careful it can be destructive. It's my belief that many of us Christians often pair this value with the absence of persecution and seek to construct lives and a society that aid us in our pursuit of happiness by procuring for ourselves protection from hardships others would bring upon us for our faith. I don't think this should be.

    I've written before on how it's good to rethink how much we value freedom of religion and our pursuit of avoiding persecution. I've also written about how the pursuit of happiness isn't sufficient. Here I wish to combine these ideas and I desire to do so by quoting one of the greatest theologians of the 20th century, Dietrich Bonhoeffer. In his book Life Together, he stated,

    Seek God, not happiness - this is the fundamental rule of all meditation. If you seek God alone, you will gain happiness.

    Keep in mind that Bonhoeffer wrote these words at a time in which he had returned to Nazi infested Germany from the safety of the United States. He was living out these words, seeking out the will of God over his own happiness, at a great cost. Seeking God often requires a great deal of suffering. It always requires the loss of self. It is never sexy or entirely self-gratifying. It is not a safe pursuit. However, it is a pursuit that rewards richly in a way that is often unexpected. It's an upside down life. Seeking God will force us to gain many a terrible thing but it will also gain us happiness. 

    Truly, if we seek God we will receive happiness. If we seek happiness we will quickly find that our aim was shortsighted and selfish. When we live as lovers of God, being selfless, giving to God and others through life we find happiness "for it is in giving that we receive" (St. Francis of Assisi). We need a higher goal than our own happiness. We need God. Let us seek God and see what he gives us. 

    Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4). 

    We can value the pursuit of happiness but our pursuit should not be happiness itself. Let us have longsight and seek God himself who is love for in love alone will genuine and worthwhile happiness be found. Any other happiness shall be rotten and not worth pursuit.

    In what ways have you been pursuing happiness? Have you been pursuing God to pursue happiness, or have you been pursuing happiness itself?

Comments (7)

  • davus0@xanga

    Yes you are very right, happiness is a dangerous image to chase after.  Everybody looks happy from the outside.  Some people get so trapped in their fake happiness they forget they are faking it.  Furthermore, seeking happiness for the sake of happiness is idolatrous and leads to wanting God for the sake of happiness, in other words fetishizing happiness selfishly. 

    Although I am not a practicing Christian I respect many of the thinkers and thoughts I found in that tradition, such as your own.  Christianity is a special religion because it places suffering over escape.  IMHO, the Gospel is a story of somebody good enough or perhaps wise enough to escape, who chose to stand instead.  Not stand and fight but just stand - confronting suffering and achieving peace through this kind of non-violent struggle. 

    In my experience, it seems like Christians do not talk enough about peace.  Even those who tout the "I came to start wars" aspect of Jesus need to think what is possible besides or beyond war. 

  • hectoramemnon@xanga

    Christians who live in the United States often value what the country values.

    A country can't value anything since it isn't alive. Only people have values.

    And Aristotle taught humanity that all of our actions no matter what they are, have happiness as their final end.

    Consequently, there is nothing wrong with pursuing happiness.  We can't help it. It's what we were designed for.

    The way to pursue happiness in a fashion that yields good, is through virtue. The ancient Greeks taught us that too. This teaching was picked up by Christianity and taught as part of our faith.

  • firetyger@xanga

    For me, the pursuit of happiness is in pursuing God's will for my life. The closer I am to Him and doing what He wants me to be doing, that brings me happiness.



  • JerusalemHill@xanga

    Well said, Travis!  Brought to my mind this verse: "The joy of the Lord is my strength."  As I look back over my own life, I can see how my pursuit of God sometimes became confused with a pursuit of happiness.  But, as I yielded more and more of my self to obey the Lord's will for my life, I sometimes found myself grappling with a tenacious self who, to my embarrassment, continued to demand lordship for myself.  Only now, with the benefit of hindsight and content with a life quite unlike the one I envisioned for myself as a young man, I realize more and more of the blessings which could not have come to me had I selfishly ignored My Lord's promptings to love others as He has love us!  Bonhoeffer learned this lesson much earlier in his life than did I; and he was rewarded, called home to be with the Lord, early.

  • jmallory@xanga

    Good, well thought-out blog as usual! :)

  • Mommy2Daughters

    Thank you for sharing!  God Bless

  • She_Lion@xanga

    What I find as a practicing Christian woman is how much each of us in some way seem to reach for the material things in this temporary world.  Pursuit of happiness should not be our ultimate goal.  Doing His will and becoming content within it would allow most of us contentedness.

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