Friday, 18 November 2011
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Dear Atheists: An Open Letter
I'm Travis. I am a Christian. It's safe to say that I believe you're wrong about the existence of the Creator God found in the Bible and about the Lordship of Jesus Christ. I say that the existence of God (specifically YHWH) and the Lordship of Jesus are facts; 100% truth. Right? Why wouldn't I as a Christian? Obviously we disagree. We both (hopefully) have strong feelings connected to our beliefs. That's good. We're going to vocalize our disagreement and it's going to cause a lot of division. That's fine. I'm absolutely okay with that dynamic of reality. You can expect me to disagree with you, tell you that you're wrong, call you to repent and invite you to come under the reign of Christ Jesus.
You can also count on me to never do those things in a way that attempts to insult or humiliate you. I refuse to call you names that demean you. I may think you foolish but I recognize I am foolish as well. I accept our similarities and I want to invest in what we share because I believe love does that. I believe love is bold and stands up for what is true but I also think love can be bold while being kind and gentle. It may sound paradoxical but that's what I see in Jesus, whom I model my life after. I will always be more strict and raw in my communication with fellow Christians than with you. My aim with you (and really all nonChristians) is merely to love you and tell you the reason I love you is because of Jesus' love.
I won't post blogs, videos, or pictures that sarcastically deliver a backhanded virtual slap to you because I know there is a human being, a sibling by creation, behind that screen and that person is worthy of my love and I am in need of having a right relationship with that person. I may find you to be in wrong standing but I don't find you to be unworthy of love. I will not speak hate to you and I will apologize for those who do. I will not devote my time to trying to break apart your opinions unless you invite me to do so in healthy dialogue. I'll blog about Christian positions but I won't blog about how stupid atheists are (because even if I thought that was loving and morally acceptable most of the atheists I know are intelligent).
I know you may not all share the same commitment. Some of you may post things online that are attacking Christians and our beliefs. You may ridicule and demean us. You may try relentlessly to show us how wrong you think we are and you may do it without gentleness or kindness. It doesn't matter. I love you. I will keep aiming to love you. If I fall short, have moments of weakness, or prove myself still a hypocrite and sinner then I apologize. Other Christians may treat you poorly and I'm sorry for that as well. We may never end up understanding each other well but I hope you'll never think I don't love you. I don't want you to think it's more important to me that you like me than you repenting though. I want you to know that the most important thing in this world is to love God with your whole being and to love others as yourself. I'll never try to get you to do this in an unloving way. So yes, I think you're wrong and yes I ask you to repent and come under the love and reign of Jesus Christ but I also ask that you hear that as coming from a voice of love, gentleness, and kindness as opposed to a yelling and mocking voice of hate coming from a virtual megaphone.
You are created by God and loved by him. I love you too. Keep thinking. Keep debating. Keep fighting with us (please do it justly). That's how we learn. Peace be with you.
Do you feel like you need to apologize to people who disagree with you? When have you had a really interesting conversation with someone whose beliefs are not like yours? What did you learn?
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Declaring that the existence God and the lordship of Christ are facts without offering reasons why that is so, is actually a bold demonstration of a profound lack of respect for those who do not acknowledge those declarations to be facts in the first place.
This applies particularly to atheists because they pride themselves on being reasonable. So to show our atheist brethren proper respect for their outlook on the topic, the believer must be able to reason out why the existence of God is a fact and then explain that reasoning to the atheist.
Saint Paul learned how to do that during his journeys throughout the Greco-Roman world.
Such a method will diminish the danger of becoming swept away by strong, irrational feelings that are so wisely noted in the post.
Such a method forces the believer to explain the Gospel through the gentleness of reason and not the harsh billy club of incomprehensible dogma and loud unfounded declarations.
@homealivein45@xanga - huh? I don't think you can't reason out the existance of G-d. Those who believe really believe by faith. That's it. Every argument I've ever heard that trys to "reason the existance of G-d" has been flat-out awful.
@NotWhereIThought@xanga - Reasoning out the existence of God has a long history. In fact, the existence of God is self-evident. That means it can be reasoned out. There is a strain of anti-intellectualism that runs through Christianity. And I believe atheists find that especially repugnant.
I believe that it is our Christian duty, given our life and times, to lay out our faith reasonably to ourselves (fellow believers), those who are thinking about approaching Christianity, and especially atheists who are not able to understand the language of faith.
Effective communication requires common language. Reason and rationality are intellectual faculties common to us all as part of our human nature.
Saying to atheists, "God exists, and Jesus is Lord, that's a fact. I respect you. End of discussion," is in fact, disrespectful and divisive.
Atheists I know outside of Xanga are men and women of great accomplishment, virtue and are amazingly intelligent. The fundamentalist, anti-intellectual brand of Christianity tries their patience because its proponents demand automatic, unthinking acceptance of the "facts".
Dear Christians: An Open Letter
Cake is delicious.
Sincerely, Agnostics.
It really bothers me when christians say it's my way or no way. As a christian, you should ultimately believe that God is in control of everything, knows all, and understand far more than we ever could hope to. Who are you to say that someone's path is the wrong one? Did you ever stop to think that perhaps God has set them on a different path for a reason? All you should do is be willing to share what you have learned and be a support for others who are learning, without a holier-than-thou attitude. You can be a righteous person without being self-righteous. How many people do you really think you'll win for your cause by telling them flat out that they are wrong? You're basically saying "You are wrong. We all love you. Join us." Seriously, people are going to stop at the 'you're wrong' part, call you names, and turn their backs on you. You can't say that what you believe is a fact without being able to provide proof of the fact. And don't start quoting bible verses as proof because that's just circular reasoning. The only proof of the existence of God a person has is their own experiences. Some people are open to that, some are not. But don't tell a person they are wrong because of what God has chosen to give them. He has His reasons and you of all people should know that.
You may feel that you are on the right path, but don't assume that you path is the only one. All things work for the glory of God.
Shabbat Shalom.
@erotyka@xanga - Are you SURE cake is delicious? ;)
(referencing the newest South Park episode with an agnostic foster home...it's hilarious!)
@kk_grayfox@xanga - I'm super duper positively sure that cake is delicious :3
@greene_lily@xanga - As Christians, we believe that Jesus Christ is the ONLY path to God. So yes, according to that, all other paths are wrong.
I'm a follower of Yahshua. I'm not a christian. I do not presume to know what path God has placed before a person. Would you like it if I told you that christianity was wrong, The False Religion? (I'm not saying it is, just trying to prove a point.) Would you begin to ask questions to join what I consider to be the only path to salvation? No. Probably you'd get mad and tell me I'm set for hell. In fact, I believe an angry answer has already formed in your head as you read this. Do you think that non-religious are going to have another response to the "your wrong" attitude? It's interesting to me to play the devil's advocate on posts like this. Was there ever a time in your life when you didn't believe in God? If not, you won't understand where non-believers are coming from. It seems to me that the majority of christians fail to show empathy for people who have different beliefs. Most of them seem very closed minded about learned more about another person's beliefs, yet they just expect others to jump on board right away.
@scrittore@xanga - Would you be angry if I told you that I believe christianity IS wrong? From one Christ-follower to another. Yep, you probably already are. Does it close your mind to investigating another's perspective? That's how most non-believers look at christians.
@erotyka@xanga - We so agree on that. Unless it's like carrot cake or something not delicious.
@greene_lily@xanga - Thanks for the feedback. I love that you're interacting! I had some thoughts concerning your words.
Who are you to say that someone's path is the wrong one?God has revealed truth to us about him and his Way in the scriptures. It's not about who I am but about who God is and what he has said. I'm not claiming authority. I'm claiming Christ and Christ speaks of the truth of God.
Did you ever stop to think that perhaps God has set them on a different path for a reason?I did. I believe God is always drawing people to him as he pursues them. I don't think he sets people on paths away from him (unless it's truly a path to him and only looks like it is away from him) but I don't see instances of God sending people on a path away from him in that way in scripture. That seems to be more like Satan activity than YHWH activity (Judas is a good example of this). People certainly make choices to walk in the opposite direction of God and he gives them the opportunity to do that and allows their choice to exist but I don't think scripture supports the idea that God sends people away from him to draw them closer. He has hardened hearts at times to fulfill his purposes but that was in response to rebellion.
All you should do is be willing to share what you have learned and be a support for others who are learning, without a holier-than-thou attitude. You can be a righteous person without being self-righteous.I'm happy to share what I've learned and to support those who are seeking and learning. To claim something as right and wrong, or even to say one has seized what is right and others have seized what is wrong is not being holier-than-thou or self righteous. Scripture doesn't lead me to believe it's wrong to say "this is right and this is wrong" especially when it comes to declaring the name of God. In fact, quite the opposite exists in scripture. So either it's wrong to say certain things are right and certain things wrong or all the prophets, apostles, judges, kings, and servants of God, even God himself are wrong because they all draw those distinctions.
Seriously, people are going to stop at the 'you're wrong' part, call you names, and turn their backs on you.That's okay. That's their choice. If someone tells me I'm wrong I won't do that to them because I'm secure in what I claim to be true. Someone telling me I'm wrong is not threatening and worthy of that type of behavior. How someone reacts to God's declarations is on them and not me. Interestingly, I didn't get the result you speak of here on my original post. I got the opposite overall. I also don't experience your predicted result in offline interactions. My atheist friends and I are on great terms even though they know my position and we love each other dearly. I choose to love them and speak truth to them. They don't have to accept that truth for me to continue loving them. The love is not conditional. If their love is conditional that's unfortunate and it sends a message.
And don't start quoting bible verses as proof because that's just circular reasoning. The only proof of the existence of God a person has is their own experiences.As a Christian I believe the Word of God speaks truth and reveals what is true about God to us. Scripture speaks of the greatest realities around us. When I speak of God being real I do point to scripture because that's a place where he has revealed himself to man. I also point to my life and the lives of others but experience is not the only revelation of God that exists. I'd even say that experience can be less convincing than scripture a lot of the time. Some may deny the nature of scripture as truth concerning Creator God, and that's fine, they're wrong about it, but if we are Christians we must confess that scripture is a valid source to inform humanity about the truth of God.
You may feel that you are on the right path, but don't assume that you path is the only oneI don't assume my path is the only one. Others need not live an identical life as mine. However, they should imitate Jesus (we're all struggling to do this). I believe all must come through Christ to be with the Father eternally (however that ends up working itself out). It is possible to believe my path is not the only acceptable one while also recognizing there are paths that are not leading to God but to death and those paths are characterized by rebellion against God. Scripture seems pretty clear about that. Following the way of God and coming under his reign is the Way to God. Standing against God and rejecting him is not a way to him. Just as we can't draw closer to a spouse by abandoning, divorcing, and not loving them we also can't draw close to God by abandoning, divorcing and not loving him. Assuming every path is right is dangerous too. Peace be with you. I appreciate the interaction!
@TheGreatBout@xanga - carrot cake is delicious.
@duckie_iz_me@xanga - In this we can not have fellowship ;)
@homealivein45@xanga - There is no argument for a god that doesn't induce faith. In the case of Western, supernatural, messianic monotheism, there is a threshold at which the materialistic world stops and where God's kingdom starts. Religion loves to (and to not embarrass its own arguments, has to) keep this border (be it a gap or overlap) vague, and in Western culture it is kept obfuscated by faith - you don't have to really address the metaphysical claims (beyond apologetics that are good enough for you to sleep at night) because you already believe it all to be true.
I love your responses. It shows that you are different from many of the other christians that I've met online and in person. I've really seen some nasty things written about atheists, other religions, or people who just disagree in general. I appreciate that you've allowed me to play the devil's advocate on your blog. Many of the things I said I have had said to me before. And it shows that there can be disagreement without the nastiness. Honestly, I'm right there with you. We do actually believe many of the same things, though I do believe our personal religions differ slightly. Kudos!
Oh, and have you ever read "Letter to a Skeptic" by Hal Lindsey?
No one has proved or disproved God/gods through reason so I think we should all just leave one another alone and respect each other.
@When_We_Were_Both_Cats@xanga - The a priori arguments, and their criticisms, for God are based on reason alone, and have nothing to do with faith.
@NotWhereIThought@xanga - If you want to read arguments that aren't "flat out awful", try the a posteriori & a priori arguments for God, and their respective criticisms. (I only linked the most well known!)
@NotWhereIThought@xanga - you dumb. BAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Jesus said that no one comes to the Father except through him.
If Jesus didn't make exclusive statements such as this one, Christians could agree that there are multiple paths to God. But because Jesus did make those claims, to agree that other paths are valid is to disown their own path.
No, I don't feel like I need to apologize to someone that I don't agree with. How boring would it be if we all thought the same things?
I myself am an atheist and while I don't think anyone is "wrong" for having different religious beliefs, I respect your decision to feel that way. (: It's nice to hear something like this, from such an accepting person.
I can't say anything to this because I'll be deemed dis-respectful. And that I'll need to open my mind. Or something.
Carrot cake is the BEST.
"@greene_lily@xanga - Thanks for the feedback. I love that you're interacting! I had some thoughts concerning your words.
Who are you to say that someone's path is the wrong one?"
Which is exactly what you do while being mostly ignorant of other paths. How many times have I heard someone say their town or city is the greatest in the world when they've never lived in another? Far too many.