I wanted them so badly, but my parents thought spending crazy amounts of money on designer brands was ridiculous. I was only in the 7th grade, though, and everyone else had them.
Everyone. I was the only uncool kid in the school. I didn't have Calvin Kleins or Jordaches, either, but I was willing to bypass those lesser names in pursuit of the ultimate.
Ah, Gloria Vanderbilt designer jeans. The 1983 edition. I salivated just daydreaming of owning a pair. The little handwriting on the back pocket ... the little duck on the front pocket ... being twins with every other girl in school ... so many beautiful benefits! I knew my life would be complete if I could just have them.
My beloved jeans! 1983 So after I saved my money up for half a lifetime, my mom took me uptown to Ann's Dress Shop to make the purchase of the decade. My patient mother must've been sick watching me spend $40-some-odd dollars on something that ridiculous. I can still see her shaking her head in silence as Ann rung me up and I eagerly unwadded my bills. I couldn't get home fast enough. I needed to get those new jeans on
ASAP! 
I'm sure I wore them every day for a month. I think the back problems I've had in my adult life originated from those jeans because for days I walked around with my torso twisted so I could stare at the embroidered handwriting on my back pocket. Would you believe someone actually snapped a picture of it? That's me to the right, in my Granny's house with my new jeans on. --->
I wish I could remember how long it took for the new to wear off and the buyer's remorse to settle in. It was a whole lot of money to spend on something so frivolous, especially for a junior high kid.
The Lord showed me even then that possessions can't make us happy. Unfortunately, He has to keep on teaching me the same lesson because even as adults we want what everyone else has. And then each new thing we acquire only fuels a desire for more things. This is why buying superficial things to satisfy the yearning of our hearts never works in the long run. One of my friends never lets herself make even a $50-purchase without thinking it over for a day (and praying about it first). I think it's a practice I need to adopt.
I know the Lord loves to bless us abundantly with things we enjoy. But He also wants us to be good stewards of all He's given us, and He longs for us exercise a little self-control now and then and find our treasure in
Him.
Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. Romans 12:2
But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Matthew 6:33
For all that is in the world--the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life--is not of the Father but is of the world. 1 John 2:16By the way, I'm proud to say that today I wouldn't dream of buying my kids a pair of designer jeans. In fact, I
despisespending lots of money on apparel of any kind. I have four kids to clothe--sweet, reasonable kids who don't bug me for the equivalent of 1980s Gloria Vanderbilts. We're more just your every-day Target and Old Navy kinda people. :)
By Amy at Make Me a Mary
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Comments (5)
I disagree. Material goods are one of the fundamental pleasures of life.
I understand the principle behind not getting caught up in material goods, but I would think if a pair of jeans lasts you that long it no longer isn't worth it. Typically nice things last longer (now if they don't, they're not worth it) and are worth the extra price. I also pray about large purchases, but usually if they're like over $100 and not an electronic device. I think if you have the money, spend it and also give back generously. The economy is run by spending.
disagree. as the great Daniel Tosh once pointed out, have you ever tried to frown while on a jet ski?
I wasn't saying we shouldn't purchase material things that bring us pleasure. It's fun to have things we want, and the Lord loves to bless us with things we enjoy (as I said in my post). If you can afford it, go for it. All I'm saying is don't expect it to fulfill you. You have every right to disagree with me, though.
Every generation has it's share of material challenges, and self esteem issues resulting from such challenges. I never wanted my children to feel out of place in school, and they didn't, but I also never got much pressure from them to spend more than I could. Today it seems the norm for girls to show cleavage, and to wear extremely tight fitting clothes that look horrid. I cannot imagine wanting to wear something two or three sizes too small for me. At least my kids didn't pull that one on me.