Monday, 03 January 2011

  • The Danger of Sentimental Christianity

    By Sharon at SheWorships

    Throughout most of my Christian life I have been taught that there are two types of people who call themselves “Christian”: There are Nominal Christians who are Christian by heritage but display no evidence of an active faith, and then there are “real” Christians who love Jesus and have committed their lives to them.

    While there is certainly a wide spectrum within each of these two categories, I have begun to realize that there is a third category of self-described Christians, and I will refer to them here as Sentimental Christians. I have come to this realization with the help of a former seminary professor of mine, an ethicist named Stanley Hauerwas who was fond of making the following statement:

    “The greatest enemy of Christianity is not atheism, but sentimentality.”

    I still remember the first time I heard those words, because I was both surprised and a little confused by them. Sentimentality? What exactly is he trying to say? Well the reason I am posting this topic now is that I can think of no better time to reflect on “sentimentality” than the holidays.

    I for one am VERY sentimental about the Christmas season. Like every year before this one, I put out my Christmas decorations, I heated up some apple cider, and I listened to my favorite Christmas songs as I sat on my couch and let the feelings of tender nostalgia wash over me. There are certain moments during the Christmas season–when I am sitting by my parents’ crackling fire or gazing at the lighted tree–that take me straight back to my childhood. It’s like being wrapped up in a warm blanket of the sights and smells and memories that made my younger years so magical. And that’s why I get so excited about Christmas–those sentimental elements of the season bring me amazing comfort and joy.

    That is sentimentality. For a more clear-cut definition, Merriam-Webster defines the word “sentimental” as “marked or governed by feeling, sensibility, or emotional idealism” and “resulting from feeling rather than reason or thought.” And while sentimentality is mostly harmless as it relates to family traditions, you’re probably beginning to see why it’s dangerous as a foundation for one’s Christian faith.

    Sentimental Christian faith is one that appears, on one level, to be fully devoted to Christ. A sentimental Christian delights in the Christian faith because of the comfort it brings her. She loves to carry forth the Christian faith in which she was raised, and she is therefore involved at her church. Her Facebook profile probably displays Philippians 4:13 or Jeremiah 29:11. By all accounts, she would seem to be a committed Christian.

    But if you dig just a little bit below the surface it becomes clear that her faith is all about comfort. Christianity is familiar to her and makes her feel secure because it is how she was raised. Yet when the Gospel requires the slightest bit of sacrifice, the sentimental Christian shows resistance. The sentimental Christian manifests tremendous inconsistency between what she professes and the personal life she leads. Outside of church she shrinks from monetary generosity or kindness in the face of evil. Sacrifice has no place in her life, not even the smallest of sacrifices such as abstinence before marriage or drinking responsibly.

    That is the problem with sentimental faith–it is ultimately self-serving. It is a feel-good religion that is incompatible with the sacrifice and suffering described in Scripture and displayed on the cross. And this inconsistency is glaringly obvious to the surrounding world. Hence my professor’s accusation that the greatest enemy to Christianity is not atheism, but sentimentality. When the church houses thousands of professing “born-agains” whose lives look nothing like Jesus’ and who know very little about the teachings of Christ, the church looks like it’s putting on a sham. Our own shallow faith is our worst enemy.

    Although the Gospel is founded upon faith, not works, the book of James is a sobering reminder that our lifestyle still matters. God cares about how we live our lives, not only because He knows what is best for us but because we reflect on Him. So I encourage you to examine your faith and consider whether it is about sentimentality, or a love and gratitude for Jesus that is so passionate you would do anything for him. Talk to your friends about this as well. I have been astonished by how nonchalantly Christians ignore Scriptural commands, and it is a topic we need to discuss. Rather than fight our enemies on the outside, we first need to address the sickness within.

Comments (7)

  • quasarglow@xanga

    I'm pretty sure I'm a sentimental Christian. :/ But I think it's better that I have faith and love for God than if I didn't. I have reached points in my life where if it weren't for that comfort from God, I don't think I could have made it. I try to be a good person, and in general, for the most part, I am, but I'm certainly not a great Christian.

  • JimBob

    great post!  It makes me think of 2Cor 13:5 where Paul exhorts people to .....examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith, test yourselves, do you not realize that Jesus Christ is in you...unless of course you fail the test.  


    The Gospel seems so simple .....love the Lord your God with all your heart mind and strength and love your neighbor as yourself........couple that with Jesus's teaching that if you love me, you will do what I ask............and that sums it up. Yet obedience seems to have fallen out of fashion in todays Christianity. Talk about obedience to many Christians today and they accuse you of being legalistic and will cry out....."we are no longer under the law".  I suspect many sentimental Christians are not Christians at all......like the previous commenter, their definition of love for God arises out of mushy sentimental feelings......that have nothing to do with the love that Jesus spoke about.......the love that results in obedience.....the love that results in us being living sacrifices as Paul speaks about in Romans 12.......living lives that are holy and pleasing to Him. 
  • Azn_Shenobi

    That's why I like apologetics. It's not necessarily good for evangelism, but it helps develop the faith by allowing us to see an objective relationship with Christ instead of a subjective religion.

  • BeoKOTOR@xanga

    I understand what you mean. I am a very "science-minded" Christian in the sense that I prefer to have logic and reason more than feelings and hunches, so the Sentimental Christians have always been like an alien creature to me. They are about as opposite from what I think Christianity is supposed to look like as you can get without falling into the other category of "Sunday Christians." I agree that this use of Christianity as a security blanket can be harmful. It doesn't make a person any less saved by any stretch of the mind, but it does lessen the significance of certain aspects of salvation. 

  • shochiku@xanga

    I guess that's why there was a time, not that long ago, whenever I find myself royally irked at how some contemporary praise and worship songs felt too saccharine, if not overly antiseptic of the reality of faith--to the point I actually dared myself to mock the sentimental church culture such as "Hail To The King,"--where I actually voiced my then-angst-ridden phase by offering a Nazi salute--during service!

    Uh.... yeah: I'm very unflinching when it comes to coming clean about the personal historical hows' to the sausage-making processes of faith-building in God!

    While thankfully I am glad to be over it (the cynical angst period), your blog nevertheless, reminds me--if not reinforces in me, the conclusion why I believe you can't pronounce sentimentality without sin!

  • jothornbu
    C'mon over

    I appreciate your comments about many Christians embracing a sentimental faith, based on comfort in Jesus. I have been married for over 31 years, and my husband and I have 4 children and one new grandchild. I still feel young in the Lord.  As a new Christian, I enjoyed the comfort I found in Christ and the assurance of salvation that He gave me through His word. 

    If other Christians are like me, I believe that new Christians grow from having a sentimental faith to a working, sacrificial faith IF they accept the trials of life as God's tools to conform them to His image and likeness. I definitely know that God has and is using our marriage and child-rearing to help both my husband and me to grow from a sentimental faith to an "abiding in Christ", sacrificial, wise, and enduring faith in God. God uses life's bumps, bruises, and relationships to grow our faith from the tiny seed of sentimentality to a thankful, depending on God, Christ-centered, people-loving, compassionate, and giving-of-self faith!! 
    What's important is He has us in His care. He WILL grow us as we look to Him!! 

    My (growing and learning) website is found at:  godspureloveforyou.com

  • nowayout001@xanga

    I believe that Christianity does not only appeal to reason but also emotion. Seraphim means Fire (Passion for God), Cherubim means Knowledge (Rational reason for belief). Now, God sees both as equally important. Leaning towards one or another while neglecting the "counterpart" is deficient.

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