Saturday, 03 April 2010

  • The True Meaning of Easter: It's Not the Candy

    What is the first thing that most people think about when they hear the word "Easter?"

    I'll tell you what most children think about:

    • Eggs!
    • Candy!
    • Bunnies!
    • Easter baskets!

    Uhhh... Come again? Since when is Easter about Eggs and bunnies? Since when do bunnies and eggs even go together? As far as I know, bunnies are mammals and therefore have babies like the rest of us: outside of an egg.

    Easter is about Jesus and His suffering, not about candy! As a Catholic/Christian, I am offended, to say the least, that children will be associating this holiday with stupid material things.

    That's not to say I wasn't one of them at some point. There were times when I looked forward to Easter because of the baskets my parents always gave me -- and the weeks that followed when I'd keep the grass because it made me feel happy.

    There was one distinct year, however, when my parents refused to buy a basket. Needless to say, I threw an age-appropriate tantrum and pouted throughout the day.

    Today, however, I am grateful my parents did that. I am beyond grateful they stopped buying my sisters and me baskets of candy every year because that gave me the chance to really know God. To really get the feel for what this holiday is truly about: the suffering and resurrection of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

    How do you guys celebrate Easter? What sorts of values do you teach your kids with regard to this holiday? Do you give them candy and a basket to "keep them happy/quiet?"

Comments (13)

  • tsh44@xanga

    I wrote a blog about this today. I do indeed buy my children candy and we dye eggs. Jesus was a man who children ran to. Children don't run toward sourpuss holier than thou old men. They run to those who know how to smile and have fun. What Jesus did for us is quite serious but also a cause for joy. His death bought our lives; that is cause for reflection and for a joyous shout of praise. Jesus gave us bunnies, lambs, adorable little chicks and yes even eggs those things did not come from the world. They are used by the world and become material things only if we let them and only if we cease to appreciate the origins of them. These things remind us of the new life Jesus death brings to us. The beautiful spring colors we dye the eggs with remind us that he loved us enough to create for us a world of colors. Candies were created using the intellect that God gave us to give pleasure to our taste buds. I see no harm in my children celebrating the joyful resurrection of our Lord with things that bring them joy. I see no harm as long as we keep Jesus first and remind them of the origins of all these good things. If a Christian child sees the Easter baskets, bunnies, candy etc and that's all they know of Easter than their parents have failed them. It's not the fault of the things it's the fault of the parents.

  • ToddAmbrose@xanga

    When my children were young we didn't really do much in the way of commercial celebration.

    We would simple have a short discussion about the Crucifixion of Christ and what is means to sacrifice ones self for the lives of others.  Or what it means to be generous as opposed to selfish.  Or some other topic.  Honestly the discussions were short and sweet followed by a simple prayer and a tasty dinner. 

    Kids are gone now so its just me and my wife for dinner

  • Midnight_Fantasy2011@xanga

    I was the same way. growing up, even though I knew Jesus (I have been in Catholic school my whole life) I always looked forward to the candy and bunnies. I never really understood his Passion, though i knew he died on a cross for us. It didn't hit me until my parents & grandparents stopped buying me candy (7th grade) about the true meaning, and i wasn't even emotionally affected until i entered high school. Now, as a present Junior in a Catholic high school, and have seen the Passion of The Christ for the first time 2 weeks ago, I am now greatly emotionally affected. I watched a YouTube video yesterday with Brian Littrell's song "Wish" with Passion scenes and i just broke down crying and thanking Jesus for enduring so much just for me. I think there is age-appropriate meanings for Easter. I would not have been able to understand everything I know now at 5 years old. I think cutting off the candy at the right age and telling them the real meaning of easter is a better transition. if i do have kids one day, i would tell them about the real meaning gradually as they get older, but i think that a child can truly understand the real meaning at 12 or 13, and from then on seeing easter as a time of Jesus and his love for us, and not candy, bunnies, and eggs 

  • Ancient_Scribe@xanga

    I think that the tradition of candy, eggs, etc. is absolutely fine, however, it is the parent's task then to educate their children about the significance of it all. They must teach their children that the source of that Easter joy, the reason there is such a celebration and gifts and sweet candies is because of Christ's passion and death, by which we come to receive everlasting life. So many parents just go with the commercial flow and forget to teach their children, and then years later wonder why they stop going to Mass.

    @Midnight_Fantasy2011@xanga - While I am Catholic and never went to Catholic school, I had a very similar experience when I first saw "The Passion" in the theater the year it came out. Until I saw that, I never realized that Jesus bled and suffered such violence; in hearing the passion read at Mass every year, blood is not really mentioned. Seeing that film changed my life, too, especially when I realized that the Eucharist we receive at Mass is part of that whole reality of suffering/death/resurrection that we actually share in. Notice at Mass next time you go that when we say "Lamb of God..." the priest is breaking the Bread, and then soon after holds the broken Host above the Chalice and says, "Behold, this is the Lamb of God..." It is so much like the centurion who, after Christ died, said, "Surely this was the Son of God!" So in this we are reminded of His passion and death. When we eat His Body and drink His Blood, we accept the gift of His suffering and death, embracing it with our entire being, and just as food nourishes us and brings us continued life, so does our acceptance of His suffering and death, by His very living Body and Blood, raise us to eternal life. Jesus talks about this in John 6 when He says, "Unless you eat my flesh and drink my blood, you have no life within you."

    There is so much going on in the Mass that many don't even realize, but when you learn about it and think about it, it is like walking into a whole new reality. Seems to me that your eyes are starting to be opened to it a little!

    And judging by your statements on how you would raise your kids, I think you will be an EXCELLENT mother someday. Hopefully you can teach them about the rich and ancient faith that they were baptized in and help them fall in love with Christ at an early age! If you ever have any questions about Catholicism, please feel free to message me any time. God bless you, and have a wonderful Easter!

  • SpokenThruScott@xanga

    1 Corinthians 9:19-23

    Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to
    everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the
    Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I
    myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I
    became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God's law
    but am under Christ's law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak,
    to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all
    possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that
    I may share in its blessings.

    "That's not to say I wasn't one of them at some point. There were times
    when I looked forward to Easter because of the baskets my parents
    always gave me -- and the weeks that followed when I'd keep the grass
    because it made me feel happy.
    "

    Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will
    be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

    Be careful with your words because God will hold you to the same standard you hold others too.  If you judge others for integrating worldly things into Easter, God might look in a separate part of your life where you too might mixed world and Christ.

  • A_Piano_Tuner@xanga
  • tsh44@xanga
  • Ork58@xanga

     As a Catholic/Christian, I am offended, to say the least, that children will be associating this holiday with stupid material things. Well, I am disappointed that as a Catholic/Christian, you are so short sighted as to not understand the role candy, eggs, bunnies and chicks play in resurrections story.


     Since when is Easter about Eggs and bunnies? Since when do bunnies and eggs even go together? As far as I know, bunnies are mammals and therefore have babies like the rest of us: outside of an egg. Uhh, you can't possibly be that clueless. Are you just trolling? Let's assume, just for a sec, that you truly don't understand "eggs" and "bunnies"....eggs represent the life that is entombed and will come forth, never to be entombed again. Bunnies represent fertility, the rapid reproducing of life, and on another dimension, represent softness, love, kindness, frailty, and a number of other sentiments/emotions. There are so many ways to see the Love of Jesus in a bunny, especially when showing and telling to a child. Baby animals represent the newness of life, the repetition of the life cycle.


    There was one distinct year, however, when my parents refused to buy a basket. Needless to say, I threw an age-appropriate tantrum and pouted throughout the day. Sounds to me like you never got over it, sounds like you are still bitter. I got my children candies and eggs and such, from the time they were two til now, at 23, 21, and 19. The handmade baskets that their Grandmother made them come out each Easter. The whole weekend represents family, love, God, good, tradition, roots, heritage, and a host of other values that are intrinsic. When do you get too old for candy? My 93 year old Aunt still likes jellybeans.


     I am beyond grateful they stopped buying my sisters and me baskets of candy every year because that gave me the chance to really know God. To really get the feel for what this holiday is truly about: the suffering and resurrection of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. So that was the big turning point for you, huh? Not having that basket of candy is what turned on the lights and made you aware of what Christ did this weekend nearly 2,000 years ago? Of the horrors, the pain, the blood, the suffering, the injustice, how lost all his friends, followers and family felt, how angry they were with Roman authorities, how betrayed they felt? Puhleeez.....


    Teaching, especially children, needs to be age appropriate. At younger ages, children are simply unable to understand complex concepts. Try teaching Trigonometry to a 3rd grader. Not. But by the time you are High School or College level, then yes, Trig is something you can understand. It's not so very different with children and the life cycle. Jesus' actions broke the cycle of death and gave a pathway to eternal life. He would have the little children come to Him, take them on his knee, and proclaim their innocent, simple belief in Him would get them a place in Heaven far before the learned, wise sages.


    So before you come across so indignantly and "holier than thou" because you look at these "pagan" practices with such disdain, step back and look at the bigger picture. Instead of complaining how bunnies and candy have nothing to do with Jesus' death and resurrection, why don't you find ways to apply His actions of this weekend to those very traditions... Some of us call that a "teachable moment"..

  • TrumvilleOrbison@xanga

    Okay. The egg/bunny thing started because they're symbols of springtime fertility. You're not supposed to extrapolate and assume that the bunnies are HATCHING from the eggs. Hence why there are also, um, baby chicks?


    Also, can I just say that the photo up there looks like an excellent candidate for CakeWrecks.
  • Celtic_haven@xanga

    Easter is a pagan holiday. The Bible told us specifically not to be like the pagans and participate in such practices. I'm sure most would argue that it's all in "good fun" for the kids, but I disagree. Just like Christmas and Halloween, it's wrong. The Bible even says not to put up trees in your home and decorate them, yet how many Christians do we see practicing this?

  • CoG_Love

    "What is the first thing that most people think about when they hear the
    word 'Easter?'"

    "Easter" is another moniker for Semiramis, the wife of Nimrod. The idea of an observance in her name was her idea, as was a 40-day period leading up to it (which was called "Lent" just as it's called today). The reality of Easter is in it's name itself, so it's a wonder that people are still falling for it.

  • lyoosss@xanga
  • T1T20

    First of all I want to congratulate everyone here because they are demonstrating some sense of a spiritual self. This is extremely important in this ever so deteriorating society where morals and values are becoming a thing of the past.  I encourage everyone to continually keep reading the bible daily and keep on seeking the true knowledge of Jehovah and Jesus.


    So what's the connection between Easter and Jesus? Let's look at the facts;
    In the book The Two Babylons, by Alexander Hislop, we read: “What means the term Easter itself? It is not a Christian name. It bears its Chaldean origin on its very forehead. Easter is nothing else than Astarte, one of the titles of Beltis, the queen of heaven, whose name, . . . as found by Layard on the Assyrian monuments, is Ishtar. . . . Such is the history of Easter. The popular observances that still attend the period of its celebration amply confirm the testimony of history as to its Babylonian character. The hot cross buns of Good Friday, and the dyed eggs of Pasch or Easter Sunday, figured in the Chaldean rites just as they do now.”—(New York, 1943), pp. 103, 107, 108; compare Jeremiah 7:18.


    So as we see, the name Easter is far from Christian. Easter is just another name for Ishtar or Astarte, a sky god who was worshipped  by many peoples such as the Babylonians and Carthaginians who inherited the Canaanite religion from their Phoenician forefathers. Astarte was connected with fertility, sex and war. Her symbols were the lion, the horse, the sphinx, the dove, and a star within a circle indicating the planet Venus. Wow, shocking isn't it?  Let's keep in mind that Easter is associated with Jesus ressurection...should it be? What would Jesus say today if he saw his "followers" associating his death with a Pagan goddess of sexuality?


    Let's look at another fact. Nowhere in the New Testament is there any indication that Christians observed the Easter festival because the custom of the Easter season are not Christian.
    Another fact can be found in the Catholic Encyclopedia where it says: “A great many pagan customs, celebrating the return of spring, gravitated to Easter. The egg is the emblem of the germinating life of early spring. . . . The rabbit is a pagan symbol and has always been an emblem of fertility.”—(1913), Vol. V, p. 227.


    Everyone here obviously agrees that what Jesus did for us was selfless and of a great importance to mankind's future hope.  Jesus died on the 14th day of the spring month of Nisan (March-April), 33 C.E. Before his death he had instructed his Apostoles to:


    “Keep doing this in remembrance of me.”—Luke 22:19.  He instituted the Lord’s Evening Meal on Nisan 14, the evening of the Passover, which the Israelites celebrated annually, it is evident that Jesus intended the Memorial to be commemorated in the same way. Whereas the Israelites annually celebrated their deliverance from bondage in Egypt, Christians annually commemorate their deliverance from bondage to sin and death.—Exodus 12:11, 17; Romans 5:20, 21. 


    This date is the most important day of the year for a Christian. Not his birth but his death. It's sad to see "christians" neglect this day and focus solely on what they think was his birthday. Anyways that's a whole different topic and for now i will stick to Jesus and Easter.


    Alright so what should Christians celebrate then? As was stated earlier, it's his death. Jesus specifically commanded us to keep celebrating his death and that is why every year millions of Christians attend the commemoration of Jesus death. You too can be a part of this by just talking to any Jehovah's Witness for more details.

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