Monday, 02 November 2009

  • Does God Get Disillusioned?

    by Sharon Hodde Miller

    This week my pastor preached about Exodus 32 and the Israelites’ betrayal of God. While Moses was on the mountain receiving the Ten Commandments, the Israelites felt abandoned. They couldn’t feel God’s presence, so they took the gold that God had given to them in Egypt and used it to make a golden calf. Or as Aaron the dufus put it, “They gave me the gold, I threw it in the fire, and out came this calf!” (v. 24) He’s like the kid who claims he didn’t punch his brother in the face; his brother simply “ran into his fist.” The only appropriate response to this Exodus story is a Homer Simpson-esque “doh!”

    Even though I’ve heard this story countless times, something new struck me about it this time. In response to the Israelites’ unfaithfulness, God became angry and essentially slaughtered all the unfaithful. But that’s not what surprised me. What surprised me was the extent of God’s anger even though He knew ahead of time they would betray Him. It’s not as if God was caught off guard when they started worshipping idols. He knew it was going to happen, and yet He responded with the kind of anger of someone who’d had high expectations but had been stunningly disappointed.

    And that got me to thinking. The story of Exodus happened thousands of years ago. It continues to happen today. God knows we are going to royally screw up over and over again, but He gets angry about each act of sin and disobedience as if it’s the first time. Why hasn’t God become disillusioned with us? You’d think that at some point He’d wash His hands of the broken human race and walk away. That way He wouldn’t have to go through such pain and depth of emotion each time.

    But He doesn’t. In spite of the fact that God knows we will mess up, and in spite of the fact that His justice compels Him to feel betrayal and wrath in response, His love and mercy compel Him as well. He perseveres with us. He loves us unconditionally. He pursues us even though He knows we will forsake Him. He never becomes disillusioned.

    For us young people, this is a powerful example. Disillusionment is an attribute that frequently defines our generation. As a group, young adults are generally more idealistic, which also means we’re more prone to get sick and tired of political corruption and religious hypocrisy. In response, it’s easy to wash our hands of it all.

    While there’s an extent to which our faith in secular institutions should certainly be limited, there’s no excuse for washing our hands of the church. In view of God’s great mercy, disillusionment is revealed to be nothing but a cop-out. We are not in more of a position to be disillusioned with God’s people than God. If He will not forsake His people, if He will not stop loving them, then neither should we. And more importantly, if God has not stopped loving US in spite of our own infidelity, then who are we to do less for others?

    This truth holds me accountable for my attitude and the state of my heart. I do get frustrated with other Christians, and there have been times when I’ve wanted to walk away from it all. But we cannot do so and remain faithful to God. The two options are incompatible. Remember that the next time you hear someone say that they walked away from the church as some sort of spiritually superior move. As 1 John 4 reminds us, “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.” (v. 19-20) You can’t love God and hate His church. You can be disappointed with people in the church, even angry at times–clearly so was God–but you cannot walk away, nor can you give into feelings of bitterness or self-righteousness. The love of Christ compels us otherwise.

Comments (12)

  • foxes_have_holes@xanga

    Whoa whoa whoa! Who said that God already knew what was going to happen?

  • golai@xanga

    Leaving a specific gathering or ceasing to attend a regular moderated service does not qualify as "leaving the church".  The church is God's people, you can stop attending a certain gathering on Sundays and still be within God's church.  Who's copping out?

  • subSacred@xanga

    @golai@xanga -  The danger in abandoning a structured gathering of believers for worship, prayer, fellowship and exhortation is that we typically do so because we want to do "church" on our own terms, we don't want to be subject to anything too much bigger than us. We get to pick our favorite Christians, our favorite passages, and all the other things we liked in traditional Church or didn't get in traditional Church, and personalize it as much as we can so that we can avoid BS, red tape, and Church politics. I believe dealing with some of the headaches you come across in a structured, traditional Church setting is what can help us grow as both individuals and Church communities, and brings us closer to seeing each other through God's eyes, and loving each other as we should. To opt out of humble submission to a structured, intentional body of believers is opting out of the very purpose of the body of Christ. Therefore, in such a case, it is a cop out.

  • SirNickDon@xanga

    Yeah, if we're taking our cues from the scriptural story rather than Platonic philosophy, it certainly seems as if God didn't know in advance what was going to happen, and certainly didn't cause it, as many Christians would insist.

  • golai@xanga

    @subSacred@xanga - submission?  Leaving a church has nothing to do with submission or discontent.  I believe that there are times God wants us to move on.  However, the attitude held by most "established" churches is that anyone who leaves is immature and looking for an easy way out.  


    Reading the post, I liked it.  I just wanted to make avoid the derogative connotation people often have with a person that leaves "the church".
  • Pickwick12@xanga

    @SirNickDon@xanga - Do you believe, then, that God is limited by the fact that anything He knows, He definitely caused? 

  • SirNickDon@xanga

    @Pickwick12@xanga - No, I don't believe that's a limitation.  My understanding is that God knows the future as potential, which is to say that God knows every possible future that could come about, and is no less prepared to deal with one or another of them. 

    The basic idea goes back to a Jesuit named Molina, who believed that God not only knows everything that is, but everything that might be.  What would have happened if George Washington had died of polio as an infant?  We can speculate, but God knows exactly what would have happened, and every variable possibility that follows from that.  It fits very conveniently with the openness view, and with passages throughout the Bible where God says, "I expected you to do this [it was likely Israel would repent], but you did not [Israel took the unlikely path]."  But never was God unprepared to deal with that unlikely circumstance.  And, as you say, there are some future events of which God can say with certainty will come about: because when God makes up his mind to do something, such as win a bride, there is no power that can prevent it.

    Calvinists in particular (though there are Molinist Calvinists) find this kind of open view insulting to God (Giesler still calls open theism "finite godism"), but I think the opposite is true.  The Calvinist view of God emphasizes his power, dominance and control, while the open

    view highlights his wisdom, flexibility and relationality. 

  • Pickwick12@xanga

    @SirNickDon@xanga - I believe there's a valid middle view, but I am familiar with open theism. It's one of those things that I say, more power to you if you love God and believe that. It's debatable and not worth anyone getting tied in knots over. As long as we agree that God is all-powerful, then we're good to go.

  • subSacred@xanga

    @golai@xanga - Ha I do know what you mean. I recently left the Church I had attended for 6 years, because long story short it was time to move on, and some folks made it sound like I was leaving Christ's Church altogether. Despite my expressed intentions to find another Church body, people couldn't get past the idea that I was leaving their body, therefore I was leaving the Church. So don't get me wrong, I think there can be good reasons to leave a Church, and even be without an established Church body for a while.

    But there are many who leave Churches because of issues of submission or discontent, and that always drives me nuts. My previous comment was in reference to those who intentionally leave structured Church altogether because they think they can do something better hanging out at home with a few friends or at a coffee shop. Although I believe that wherever 2 or 3 are gathered in His name He is there with them, I also believe it is much more healthy and productive for the Body of Christ at large for us to be involved in already existing fellowships rather than breaking Church down into little poorly organized cliques of believers. Leaving Churches in order to dodge structure, certain people, and accountability has been a growing trend in my neck of the woods, and I have yet to see how it has benefited anyone. I do know house Churches or other informal, loosely organized Church gatherings can serve a purpose in some cases. Many of the largest Churches out there started as house Churches. I suppose it is all about intentions.

    If people want to start their own form of Church just to escape from the people in their current Church, they have got the whole idea of Church wrong. And as the post points out, if God puts up with us, who do we think we are to not put up with each other?

  • SirNickDon@xanga
  • MikeyisAwesome@xanga

    You know why the Israelites built the golden calf? Because they were slaves in Egypt and always saw who was ahead of them, and saw the Gods of the Egyptians. So coming out of Egypt they were all very young to the idea the unseen God. But they received word from God through Moses, so when he left, they went back to what they knew before. Kinda reminds me of the christians today who don't see God clearly and then go back to their sinful ways. No God does not get disillusioned, because we can see throughout the entire bible how God prepares everything, He is very strategic. So the better question is are we disillusioned to what God is doing and teaching?

  • SheilaJoyce@xanga

    Very well written & needed greatly !


    In the last couple of years, the best & the only rapid reply I can give to a strangers e-mail on this touching subject, has been my deep love for our 2 Tabby Cats... The baby brother, while a handful, he's never pulled any fast ones or miss-behaved unless I'm directly within his sight...  The eldest brother, never ever does anything within my sight...rather, he waits until I'm not around to be completely brutal to his baby brother...   I love the both the same...  Don't trust the eldest, but...    As our Heavenly Father will never stop loving us, neither will I them !


    Your post is perfect !

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    • About Me: Sharon Hodde Miller is a North Carolina girl, born and raised! She is originally from Charlotte, NC, and she received her undergraduate degree and Masters of Divinity from Duke University. Sharon has worked for Proverbs 31 Ministries where she was a contributing writer to the ministry’s daily devotions and radio broadcasts. She has written for Relevant Magazine’s online articles, Lifeway’s Collegiate Magazine, Ungrind Webzine, and she continues to write and minister to women all over the world about being a Christian woman in an ever-changing culture. Sharon currently lives in Durham, North Carolina with her husband, who is currently pursuing a Master of Divinity at Duke Divinity School. If you would like to contact her regarding a speaking or writing opportunity, if you have any questions, or would like to submit a blog topic, please e-mail her at sharon(at)sheworships(dot)com.
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