Wednesday, 30 September 2009
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Non-Profit Programs: Living in Truth or Deception?
Focus on the Family recently highlighted a youth ranch that rehabilitates horses that have been abused, neglected, and sometimes almost killed then pairs them with kids who have had similar experiences. Horses and Healing was an episode that I had to listen to because I've had some bad interactions with non-profit organizations in my time. I have been involved in some, gained faith in their supposed "goal", only to find the illegal things they would do by "twisting" and "bending" the laws to get what they wanted. These places did it on purpose, fully knowing what they were doing, and they weren't looking out for the true interests of the people they served. I was curious what kind of organization this was and whether it was truly doing what it claimed it was doing---bringing recovering horses together with recovering kids in order to promote healing.
I was encouraged by the show when the woman talked about her horrendous experiences as a child knowing that her father killed himself and murdered her mother. Sometimes, I feel the best people to serve the hurt are those who have been severely hurt themselves. I am an example. I was abused multiple ways as a child and never really told anyone until I was an adult but by this time the nightmares had gotten really bad. I have since recovered, much through grief counseling and true forgiveness that only comes through Christ. Through all that, I realized my overwhelming desire to work with kids who are "at risk" or who have seen the same kinds of things I have, specifically abused kids.Having these desires fpr and dreams of helping these kids recover, I was extremely angered by the conduct I found at some non-profit organizations that were claiming to help. They cut corners in daily care such as good healthy foods, instead only accepting donations from stores after the food is moldy, infested with bugs, or past experiation date. The organizations bought from food pantries in bulk or damaged goods. I remember eating some food at a non-profit, that I will not give any name or association to, and the food they obtained was stale and disgusting. I couldn't believe the people they were giving to actually ate it! I guess they can't be choosers, after all they are just people who need help because they've been abandoned, abused, or weren't emotionally healthy. But don't they need fresh, healthy, tasty food?
Now don't get me wrong, they still bought fresh food for the residents, it's just that they were getting money from private payment families, local governments for residents who were in the program by order of the state, and money from outside donations---even actual fresh food from private donors who would just randomly drop food off because they wanted to give. Many of these places are honestly just trying to make ends meet. So let's now move on from money to conduct.
Many of the staff members at these residential facilities aren't appropriately trained to care for medication dependent, emotionally disturbed, hurting, recovering, and sometimes physically dangerous clients. It doesn't matter the age group or the specific reason it was created, many organizations just evolve into whatever they become. Some, actually just start with a vision for one thing, then try to branch out to others. Sometimes because it obtains new, more qualified staff over time, who want to add things such as counseling centers for the community, it expanding genders, or it opens more facilities (some even open businesses such as thrift shops or fast food type restaurants in order to raise money and employ the clients). Either way, many get in over their heads because they don't really know what they are doing or don't have the actual training to offer their employees.
I don't want to think about how many drug overdoses, physical abuse and other outrage victims that happen in these homes that don't really have it all together. I guess we will leave that to the state departments to investigate, if they ever find out. These places are good at cover up too! So please note, I'm not saying ALL of these organizations are like this. I was indeed filled with hope when I listened to the clip about Horses and Healing.
How should Christians judge non-profits before getting involved with or funding them?
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The same way anyone else should...?
Revelife's "How should a Christian respond to XYZ?" when it is how anyone should respond is beginning to annoy me since it seems to be happening with a greater frequency.
That being said, I look over any materials I can get my hands on when I start with some light involvement. If I choose to get heavily involved, then I look around and if I don't like what I see, I leave.
The only note here is that most of the non-profits I've been part of were still in the "Meet in a classroom after classes" stage, so I was there from the ground up in most cases.
Well I agree!
True not all do this but some do. This is slightly different but along the same lines, a certain well known lady who had done quite a bit of missionary work came to my old church and she told us about when she had visited a certain third world country, they had terrible illnesses, no food, no clothes, no medicines...
A certain supermarket in the UK sent some aid over, when it arrived they opened the boxes to find...
Chalk!
They had no boards to write on and no food, clothes (sorry back to that) - they needed blankets and clothing, for the cost of the chalk they could have had some blankets at least.
Someone somewhere had got their wires crossed.
"Having these desires fpr and dreams of helping these kids recover, I
was extremely angered by the conduct I found at some non-profit
organizations that were claiming to help. They cut corners in daily
care such as good healthy foods, instead only accepting donations from
stores after the food is moldy, infested with bugs, or past experiation
date. The organizations bought from food pantries in bulk or damaged
goods. I remember eating some food at a non-profit, that I will not
give any name or association to, and the food they obtained was stale
and disgusting. I couldn't believe the people they were giving to
actually ate it! I guess they can't be choosers, after all they are
just people who need help because they've been abandoned, abused, or
weren't emotionally healthy. But don't they need fresh, healthy, tasty
food?"
An idea I've been throwing around is buying good food for the people and then eating the bad food myself. Another one is to fast once a week and use the money saved to buy food others.
They also need to know that they are worth and to be given their dignity. And yes everyone needs fresh and good food. And yes, if you give, you need to know that the organisation is treating others as they would Jesus. Abused people have such low self-esteem; giving them less than the best will reinforce that. A few years ago, we were promised a Christmas hamper. It was so looked forward to at that time. We had basics but nothing more, When it arrived? A black refuse bag with the cheapest foods. And toilet rolls.. A simple pretty box of just a few good things would have raised morale so much more; when we give we make sure that all is fair and the best there is. A black refuse bag says; you are not worth bothering with.
i think that anyone who's considering making a donation to an organization has a right to know where their money is going and how it will be used. there are websites you can use to check the statistics of different nonprofits; if you don't like the money breakdown, or the president's salary, or whatever it is, choose to send your money elsewhere. find an organization that you can get behind 100%, without having that little wistful thought that you wish they were doing (fill in the blank) differently.
one of my favorite organizations in the world is entirely run by volunteers--100% of their money goes directly to their actual projects. there's no overhead, no salary budget. so i'll admit i've got some pretty high standards when it comes to assessing the responsibility of nonprofits. ;)
if you're still bothered by the quality of service of whatever nonprofits you're looking at, get even more personally involved. take a bunch of homeless people out to eat. make friends with them. :)
I've seen this too but the problem is more widespread than not-for-profits. It's a side of human nature, a collective weakness of character and short-sidedness in our society. We can of course change this but a lot of people fight the change tooth and nail.
There are 44 countries that rank better than the U.S. in infant mortality rate according to the CIA World Factbook. I've never even heard of a country called Guerney but apparently they're doing better than we are on that list.
There are 49 countries that rank better than us in life expectancy also according to the CIA World Factbook. I've also never heard of the country called Wallis and Futuna but if anyone asks me now where that country my answer will be "Just north of us on the life expectancy list".
Still, we pay over twice as much as any advanced nation on healthcare and prescription drugs which is a hint to me that we aren't getting the bang for our buck.
Wall Street came close to totally destroying this country. We're slowly recovering now but I remember seeing on TV a roomful of cabinet members in an emergency meeting sitting at an oval table stunned and speechless after being told about the collapse of the economy. I remember hearing a couple of them later tell in interviews about the shear panic and fear that ran through them upon hearing the news. Leaders on Wall Street knew exactly what they were doing as they brought us to that dire situation. I know. I was there. I was told in March, 2008 that the investment banking firm for which I worked was in dire straights.
Just wanted to point out that disappointing as people at non profits might sometimes be, they don't own the corner on the market when it comes to deceptive practices.
Oh, thankyou ever-so for sharing such personal happenings...
You'll probably never know just how many are helped by your words !
God will bless you richly for this...
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