Tuesday, 15 September 2009

  • The 5 Most Common Barriers to God

    The 5 Most Common Barriers to God The following was originally posted in this blog and was written by Genie Goodwell, a professional Christian life coach. I wanted to repost this because I think it applies to everyone. I hope that we all can look at what she says and try to change your inability to hear God. We all deserve to be witnesses to His advice and His wisdom. I pray that through this article you can find the peace or answers that you are looking for.

    I work with people who love God, want His plan for their lives and are actively trying to walk with Him. When confusion swirls through their life, challenges push them to the wall, and they feel as though He's deserted them, them come to me.As a Christian Life Coach I ask, "What is God telling you?" or the variation, "Have you asked God about it?" Undoubtedly I hear, "Yes, I've asked God." To which I reply, "What did He say?" I usually get a blank stare and some stuttering variation of "I don't know." As they look at me as if I was crazy.

    Can you really communicate with God? Yes. It's not hard to hear God. He's speaking to you daily. Because you are His greatest treasure, He's committed to help you fulfill your life purpose- what He created you do to here. And He paid for it with the life of His Son, He can't be much more committed than that!

    I've found there are 5 Common Barriers to Hearing God.

    Barrier 1. Never listening for His answer.

    Many people treat their time talking to God like a wish list. They unload their wishes on Him in a long litany of begging and pleading. Then walk away without listening for His reply. That's just rude. Prayer is not a monologue, it's a dialog. Talk to Him about your life and LISTEN FOR HIS ANSWERS. It's easy, just get quiet for a minute, expecting Him to answer you. That one step alone will transform your prayer time into an amazing journey of intimacy with the One who loves you more than you can comprehend.

    Barrier 2. Not wanting to hear His answer.

    Often people are afraid that God's answer will be something they don't want, some horrible thing they must do or give up. As if God wants bad, ugly things for you! Do you know better than God what will bring true fulfillment? Stop trying to be your own god and run your own life by your own plans... He knows better than you do! And He only wants good for you! Trust Him.

    Barrier 3. Not knowing Him.

    If you don't know Him, you don't recognizing His voice. If you don't know me, you won't recognize my voice either! When you don't know how He talks, you might be waiting for a big booming voice to part the clouds and thunder out directions! That's not how He talks! Take some time to get to know Him and how He talks.

    Barrier 4. Your own head.

    When you are looking for answers you come up with your own. You spend hours and hours thinking about how to fix your problems. The problem with that is God's not in your head and not in those plans! He dwells in your heart, in your heart is where He'll lead and guide you.

    Learn to get out of your head and listen to your heart. (That's where He talks!)

    Barrier 5. Sin.

    I know you were waiting for this one, but it's not what you think.

    Sin doesn't stop God from talking to you. After all, we are all sinners; Jesus is the only one to live a sinless life. So, sin couldn't stop God from talking to you or He wouldn't have talked to anyone in the history of the world. It's your focus on sin and your assumption He can't hear you that stops God in your life. There is no sin too big for Him to take care of, to forgive, to get you through. When you focus on your sin you won't go to Him for your deliverance or answer, you can't hear Him if you don't go to Him.

    Refocus on Him, He's talking to you today... are you listening? Blow past these common barriers and let God lead you into His magnificent plan for your life.

    Do you have problems listening to or communicating with God? Do you feel the article helped you?

Comments (25)

  • sick_of_dreams@xanga

    I think me trying to ratinalize things get in the way a lot. Or me tryin to fix thins on my own...

  • SerenaDante@xanga

    I communicate with purple talking mushrooms. For reals. I'm not crazy or anything.

  • godofthelost@xanga

    @SerenaDante@xanga - Oh man I totally thought I was all alone on that one!

  • sarahzthoughts@xanga

    My question is how exactly God communicates with us...I mean how would you know if God told you to do something vs. you coming up with it on your own? Or are some things just coincidences, like the scene from Bruce Almighty when Bruce asks God for a sign, and he passes a truck carrying a bunch of road signs...haha.

  • MrsCharlieBrown@xanga

    @sarahzthoughts@xanga - I have that exact same question.  Like how some Christians try to explain every occurence as something God is using to show you something.  Seriously?  I kinda doubt it, but how do you know which things are?

  • sarahzthoughts@xanga

    @MrsCharlieBrown@xanga - Well, don't get me wrong; I am a Christian and I whole-heartedly believe that God communicates with people, it's just a matter of HOW He communicates that I am wondering about. Maybe it's different for everyone, who knows.

  • MrsCharlieBrown@xanga

    @sarahzthoughts@xanga - I am a Christian as well, just one with many questions right now.  It might have come across differently though now that I reread my response though.  I guess it is different for everyone, but I was always taught that Christianity is very black and white.  Some parts are of course, but which ones?  Do we all have to believe exactly the same way to be correct?  That is what I was taught, raised in a Baptist school.  But now I'm not exactly sure what I believe, but looking for some answers to strengthen my faith.




  • Pcgecko85@xanga

    6. The bible is just a book written by men

  • subSacred@xanga

    @SerenaDante@xanga - Ha. yeah. How ridiculous. People on a religious blogging site talking about communication with a deity.

    Seriously... did your parents put a lock on your computer that stops you from visiting non-Christian websites?

  • SerenaDante@xanga

    @subSacred@xanga - Rofl, do you have a problem with me visiting a Christian website?

  • subSacred@xanga

    @SerenaDante@xanga - Not at all, just thought the comment made you look rather silly. 

  • SerenaDante@xanga

    @subSacred@xanga - What's so silly about talking to purple mushrooms? I mean, people talk to sky daddies all the time... I don't see anything more crazy in talking to my purple mushroom friends.

  • KuLiTnaBaTa_24_7@xanga

    i don't get how the bible got into this---not what the weblog is about...


    but, i gave up looking for signs...coz i get confused with them.  i would stay quiet, but then my head starts to think up answers that God might say...so that's not a good help.  so, then i would think about the situation...then think about God's words---and follow what is right...and it helps.  doing the right thing---and knowing that God will not leave you stranded.  That He puts you in situations, bring you closer to Him.  That He breaks you over and over again, to grow stronger.  All because He loves you and He is good. 


    ...sometimes, i think i hear Him.  ---if i don't, i try again another time...maybe i'm distracted or something.  haha.


    does anybody else do that?  does it work for you?


  • elizabeth_ateme@xanga

    This is a great topic because as a human who struggles with keeping God in her thoughts constantly, I sometimes can't find time to talk to God, let alone listen to him. This really helped put in perspective how important it is to submit to the silence and listen for answers.


    And personally (I'm not sure if this is the "correct answer" to the question of how to listen to God) I hear Him in my thoughts. As you become more mature in your faith and gain knowledge of God's word (through the bible, others, experience, etc., ) you begin to distinguish what is His voice and what is your voice (not literally). Example: God clearly states he does not like unfaithfulness of a spouse so when you are tempted, it is God's voice that gives you the instinct to ignore the other man or woman trying to lure you out of a committed relationship and your voice trying to reason why it might be okay to cheat.


    That is just one crucial way to listen to God.


    Thanks for this entry though, I am planning to make an attempt to set apart more time for listening throughout my day.

  • Biblerapture@xanga

    Reading the comments above and thinking about the posted question has made me realize how I am spending more time in developing my relationship with the Lord; and the result is hearing from Him more clearly.


    When my wife and I first dated, we spent much time in talking and listening to each other. Just spending the time together was the important part, not what we were talking about. That's what God wants from us. Who is truly first in our lives?


    If we are just sending out a text message as we fly on to the next thing in our day, how can we expect God to even respond?


    Great article!

  • BunnyHu@xanga

    It's good to keep talking to G-d til you think He is listening. He always is, but even when you don't believe reserve the table. So yeah I agree.

  • the_imperfect@xanga

    This is a good topic. Too often, I worry about planning out my days and weeks and worry about how to overcome obstacles. I worry so much that I forget about God; I shouldn't pencil him into my schedule, but rather let Him include me in His plans.

    I don't look for "signs", I know when God's voice is urging me to do something, or to avoid something and I trust that instinct. I think a lot of people forget that God is always waiting for you to come back to Him after you've gone astray for a while.

  • Pashe@xanga

    @SerenaDante@xanga - I will jump in this. It's not a sky daddy, it's LOVE itself.

    p

  • SerenaDante@xanga

    @Pashe@xanga - Well, my mushroom friend is greater love. Its smallest mycelial thread has more love than a thousand of your pagan gods.

  • Pashe@xanga

    @SerenaDante@xanga - But my pagan gods aren't my god. They r just friends that stop by every once in a while. But it sounds like your mushroom god needs to meet real love if you feel the need to compare it to real love.;)

  • SerenaDante@xanga

    @Pashe@xanga - My mushroom is way better than any god, and any god that isn't my mushroom is a pagan god. It sounds like you don't even know what real love is, since you've never felt the love of my mushroom =)

  • Pashe@xanga

    @SerenaDante@xanga - But I have felt the love of your mushroom if it's real love. It's what mystics do.

    p

  • SerenaDante@xanga

    @Pashe@xanga - No no, this is fact... unlike anything you believe =)

  • Pashe@xanga
  • discover_hienie@xanga

    no i don't have any problems talking to God.. i know God is always listening to my prayers.. i always try to put in sometime to talk to God whenever needed be

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