Sunday, 16 August 2009
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Are Many Christians Insensitive to Suffering?
The town I live in has many homeless people. It also has many Christians. I have no biased for either, I have always been exposed to Christianity and was even quite involved with the church once, I have also a number of times considered being homeless as an option and have spent nights sleeping outside with no comforts. Homelessness appeals to me more now a days then the cozy christian way.
Where I live we also have a place called jubilee park, which is where most of the homeless people, the ones with the more serious drug issues gather. Its a beautiful little park with mature trees as well as open grass areas, a playground, and picnic tables. It's almost in the center of downtown. This park I also learned last night, houses many impromptu christian concerts where everyone gathers and listens to the message wafting on heated air in gentle acoustics.
They keep their distance from the homeless, scrunch up their noses in disgust, whisper, stare, or quickly step by the area if it is not possible to avoid the homeless completely. I guess they are hoping this human waste, this sad sad sight won't interfere with their worship.
Or maybe they think "Thank God they are here! Lord now you can reach them with your sweet message of love hanging in the summer air." But homeless people have seen the billboards, have heard the tunes, have seen the clean shiny people file in to church week after week and never look down. Remember Christ is not in the sky, He is in you (Ephesians 1:22-23, "And God placed all things under His feet and appointed Him to be head over everything for the church, which is His body, the fullness of Him who fills everything in every way.")Being a Christian shouldn't start Sunday at 9am and end Sunday at 12pm. It should be on going. It has been largely forgotten (for there are still a small few who are not afraid to volunteer something of themselves) that Christ said in Matthew 25:35-40
35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.' 37 "Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?' 40 "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'
It's time to wake up. To practice what is preached. In saying that, you do not need to be Christian to help your fellow man, you cannot have humanity (in this case the act of being humane) without first having human.
May we never become insensitive to another human's suffering.Do you feel that the Church is insensitive to suffering? Do you know Christians who exemplify or defy this post?
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You said it all yourself. They've seen the billboards, heard the music, but they'd still rather be drug addicts sleeping in the park. How exactly does the 'insensitivity' of Christians force them to make the destructive life choices they are determined to make?
I wonder how many missions and homeless shelters are in your area, supported by more half the churches in your town, if your town is anything like mine? My church supports numerous local charities. I've helped put together the food boxes we give to poor families who want them.
Yet some people don't want help. Some would rather live under bridges and defy society with their irresponsible behavior and choices, and while I might feel for them, I certainly cannot make them want to reclaim the dignity of their humanity. I suppose that's somehow the fault of Christians.
If we followers of Christ have a reputation for turning a blind eye to others' suffering, or at the very least being insensitive, then isn't it time we take a long look in the mirror?
Yes, of course there will be homeless people who are homeless because of their choices, their addictions, their mental illnesses. We should love them anyway. We should feed them anyway. I don't remember Jesus putting any qualifications about deservedness on "when I was hungry, you fed me". I suspect that when we feed our brothers and sisters, we are nourished by our hearts becoming more open to God's love.
Jesus didn't ask us to be judges and yet I think we Christians have gladly taken on that task. Is it not impossible to judge others and still embrace humility?
I think a lot of people in general are. I agree that we all, as
people, should strive to be more compassionate. But this does add to Christians bad name, so especially they should step up and be more caring.
I agree that Christians ( I am a believer in Christ) tend to turn those away that don't meet their qualifications. It is not the way of Christ to turn anyone away for any reason. And people tend to turn away help and rufuse it because they fell it is better to be hunger and homeless than to have someone shoving Christ in their face, trying to make them believe because they were given help. If you do not turn to God within their time frame then people don't want to help you anymore. And helping those people who want food is easy. It is much harder to go down there, say to that park, and hand out food to those who need it. Whose to say they would refuse. Did you offer. And there are shelter but how many will fill it? How many have been turned away for some reason? There are only so many each shelter can hold. And I am sure just as in Christian's qualifications there may be some qualifications at some shelters. Drugs are not so easily quite and when you get on them it can be hard to stop. I do not agree with using but some people do. For some reason or another. And some people are born with the addiction due to their mothers habits before they were born. I know that there are many different reasons for things. I also know that if you show someone kindness and continue to they are likely to ask you why you are so good to them and that is the chance to share the Gospel. Don't be a Bible pusher. I think that they usually already know why you do what you do as well.
Take the time to go down to that park and share some blankets or food or whatever you can. Get a group together and go. Maybe you can show some of those people how it's supposed to be done. Do it on a night they have a christian concert. Then maybe some of those who attend will learn a thing or two about Christ's love and mercy. Have mercy on those who do those wrong deeds as well because they too need to be shown the truth of Christ's love and mercy for they need it just as much.
@JosephParsons@xanga - I'm sure Jesus will agree with you. After all, wasn't it he who said, "Those that need help should have listened to the nearby concerts. Those that are sick should be able to help themselves."
Hmm. That doesn't sound quite right. I think he said something more along the lines of: "I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me." (Mt. 25:43)
Ah well. I'm sure you know best.
amen.
@Shy___Away@xanga - Some people don't want to be helped. It's just that simple. I work with our charity groups at my church, and I have found people who want help and people who don't. Dumping guilt on me or Christians in general serves no purpose aside from personalizing somebody's dissatisfaction with the state of life or human nature.
You can't make people want to overcome, and your snide little remark about me knowing best serves no purpose than to demonstrate your contempt; it certainly does not make for an argument that demonstrates any experience in dealing with the homeless.
Well the typical Christian thing these days just seems to be to throw money at the problem so they don't have to touch it directly. Its like an broken water heater, its bad to have, but you can just keep throwing away extra money each month in extra energy expenses rather than get on your hands and knees to fix it. We can give money to churches to pump state of the art A/C systems and purchase epic sound systems, or to buy tv commercial time, or we can give to those directly helping solve the problems and ask what changes in our own lives we can make to fix the problem.
I've never really known any one to actually change their lives after accepting Christ, ony changing their words.
From common courtesy, I'll reply here to your blog although I do not think that I owe you a reply quite frankly. You have stated that you hold no bias either toward the Christian church or toward the homeless community. You then proceed to whip the church people and to state emphatically that you are tempted to join the ranks of the homeless since that lifestyle appeals to you more than the "cozy" lifestyle of Christians.
So much, then, for your "unbiased" viewpoint.
Christians will have to give account of themselves, their attitudes and actions, to Christ after this life is over.
Christ will say to some, "Inasmuch as you did it not unto one of the least of these, you did it not to Me." To those who obey His will, He will say, " Inasmuch as you did it unto one of the least of these, my brethren, you did it unto Me."
The parable depicts the disobedient servants being cast out and the obedient servants being welcomed into Christ's heavenly Home.
There is a lot more that I could say here. I don't want you to feel that I am insulting you, but frankly you are hardly qualified to judge Christians in general since you appear to have removed yourself from their ranks. You say you are unbiased and yet you clearly reveal an unreasonable bias at the expense of Christians you so unjustly condemn.
My thirty-six year old daughter and her husband moved into the neediest district of Vancouver Canada, seventeen years ago. Initially they rented a single house. Now they have long-term leases on four large heritage homes next door to one another. Plus they own an additional two houses. Only low-income folk qualify to rent from them, on a cooperative housing basis. Pam and Tim married and have raised all five of their young children in this neighborhood, the Downtown Eastside, known as the poorest neighborhood in all of Canada. They did this, with another family and several single young people IN ORDER TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE in this very poor, drug-ridden neighborhood. They've done a LOT of human and Christian good here and their children have always felt totally at home. There are about a dozen children in this truly Christian community and drugs, while prevalent nearby, are unknown to our families.
The large church that they attend reaches out to the whole neighborhood, helping to feed and clothe the needy. Our young people have actually founded an academy of music and have engaged some highly gifted teachers for it.
Incidentally, the poor and homeless are far from being perfect themselves. Sometimes their attitudes are appalling. One time a reporter for a newspaper interviewed some folk in line for a meal at a downtown mission. One of the interviewees dismissed the patrons of the mission as "do-gooders" and castigated them for not providing jobs for them.
So working with the homeless while praiseworthy seldom receives the praise that it deserves.
Christians ARE insensitive to others sufferings! (well,most of them anyways).I cannot understand why some Christians will chain themselves to the door of an abortion clinic,yell and scream about the rights of the unborn but at the same time ignore the fact the the brutal Israeli army MURDERS children and commits rape against Palistinian women.American Christians,why is it you can see to take the speck out of your brothers eye but cant see the log thats in your eye!? Stop this one-sided,blind support of the UNholy nation of Israel and call them out on thier sin!!
I am a follower of Jesus, and I don't take offense to this post, as much as I think you have correctly identified a large portion of the American Church. We largely do go to our nice churches, live in our comfortable suburban homes, and seem content on offering our tithes to support church programs that "reach out" to the poor and disenfranchised. However, there are those Christians, as one person posted above, who believe there is more to being a Christian than merely donating our money. We are not only called into ministering hands-on to those who suffer, but we are called to suffer alongside them. This is a radical call that requires commitment and sacrifice - a complete going against the grain of American culture. I make no excuses for my brothers and sisters who turn a blind eye to the suffering around us, but I am well aware of the difficulty in making the choice to actively love the poor and suffering around us.
As someone who has deeply felt this convcition in my life, I have committed my life to being an advocate and agent of change and reconciliation among the poor and oppressed in the city. I have lived in this neighborhood in Los Angeles since I graduated from college, a square mile that is one of the densest populated and least resourced areas in Los Angeles County. I am part of a Christian organization that's vision is to build relationships with neighbors, mentor children and youth, and bring the Gospel in an unintimidating way through weekly Bible Clubs with children and youth. As we see needs, we begin new structures, including a tutoring program, exposure trips to colleges, big cities, the mountains, etc. We spend time in the schools talking to teachers, finding out the ways we can be most helpful in our work with the children and their academics. And beyond anything, I believe that our presence here, our prayers, our love makes an impact on the spiritual powers that have a hold on the city - the way that satan tries to maintain his hold on the neighborhood through gangs, drugs, alcohol, violence. Do I think I'm doing anything extraordinary that no one else could do? Of course not. But do I think it takes a great deal of consideration and true conviction to be able to life this lifestyle without burning out? No question. But ultimately, being a follower of Jesus is exactly as this writer states, it should be a lifestyle, not just something we do when it's convenient or easy.
The longer I live in the city, the more I realize that it my responsibility is not to sit around and condemn other Christians for not agreeing with me about Jesus' mandate to love the poor, but I need to pray for more workers, pray for others to receive the same level of conviction, and to mentor and teach others about what I believe Jesus says about loving the poor. As I live out my convictions, I hope that other people will see my actions and be prompted to love those around them as well. But it is not good enough to expect that my actions alone will prompt others to newfound conviction - I must teach others as well, to let my actions and words speak the same truth and message. This is when our testimony as believers is most powerful. May God continue to teach me how to walk in His truth and to teach me His heart.
I am a youth pastor and just recently got back from a retreat where we dealed with this very issue. I think it is an issue of Christians and people in general growing Apathetic towards others. Google the poem "When Jesus came to Golgotha " There is any different versions of this poem, but the messages are all the same.  Many people choose to simply ignore the hurting and walk away.  As we learned on our retreat it is time for Christians to wake up and start seeing the world the way God does.Â
With regard to the homeless, I think a lot of people, Christian and non-Christian alike, tend to pass them by them by on the cynical assumption that any money given to them will be blown on things like drugs and alcohol...things that got them homeless in the first place. There are also people who pretend to be homeless just for the money too, probably. It's sad that we live in a world where we have to worry about things like that.
@WWJD20J@xanga - I personally find that the point that comeonalice@Xanga has made is perfectly valid, but that you've framed the response very well: how then are we to practice what we preach, and why should it be anything but the very core of our lives as followers of Jesus?
While James 2:18-24 (NIV) points out clearly, 'Shows me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do...You see that a person is justified by what he does and not by faith alone' I think it is also right to take heed of James 1:19-20, 26 over how we should then respond: 'Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires...If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a rein tongue on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless. Religion that Gos our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world."
@Grampa_David@xanga - Sir, while I hold your opinions in the highest esteem and agree with the spirit of your reply, I do believe that we must show our faith in our actions, by our example of loving each other as members of the body of Christ first. May you continue to grow in Christ.
@JosephParsons@xanga - A lot of churches do provide charity for homeless people, but is food and clothes really what those people need? How much love do you think they have gotten in past month? In the past year? The same rich white person who donates money to a charity to pay for a homeless person's food could meet that same person on the street and turn up their nose. And yes, it's true some people don't want help. But just because someone is in a bad situation, it doesn't necessarily mean that they haven't tried to get out of it. And even if they haven't, we are still called to love them.
That being said, I don't think there's anything wrong with holding a Christian concert in a park. Maybe they could try better to reach out to those sharing the park with them although it's not easy to do.
@Xmedic90@xanga - Christians, as a group, aren't any more insensitive than any other group. If anything, they're less so.
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This website is dedicated to telling the stories of the unfortunate individuals living in the Downtown Eastside of Vancouver in the hope that awareness of this problem will spur people to get involved, to let all levels of government know that something has to be done to alleviate this misery rooted in addiction, homelessness and depravity. To point the way to recovery from addiction, which we believe is the root of most of this situation.With the 2010 Olympics coming to Vancouver it is our mandate to record the transition and the extreme changes that are even now occurring and will continue to unfold in the Downtown Eastside.
While I agree that most Christians are insensitive, not all. Â There are some that still ignore the homeless out of fear. Â Me, being a decently attractive 18 year old girl, I would feel uncomfortable going up to a random homeless man. Â Or any random man, homeless or not. Â But still, its no excuse. Â Just saying that some ignore them out of fear. Â
@Grampa_David@xanga - this i fully understand, i am familiar with east hastings, i live by there, i walk those streets, i help where i can, and i offer love not a hurried step over the bodies. I am not saying every Christian, I am saying the sunday Christian. There just needs to be more. I love Jesus, I love his people, I have an aching for his homeless, for the ones society rejects. I am not saying it is easy... i'm saying more needs to be done, more like your daughter is doing. I think this is incredible which is why i stated precious few are out there doing remarkable things. I wish there were more people like your daughter out there and her husband filling the world with love. Less people stepping over the bodies. I didn't say working with the homeless is rewarding, and if reward is what you are looking for in helping them you in it for the wrong reasons. The world needs more love.
@StarAndSpiral@xanga - keep your eyes open, you can usually spot the persons you think will be a threat to you... i started 'hanging out' with the homeless when i was 18, im 23 now... most people are happy just to talk for a while, even nodding a hello rather than ignoring them completely can lighten up a day. You should avoid persons who make you uncomfortable, or approach the people in the day where there are other persons around. Of course you absolutely need to keep yourself safe.
@JosephParsons@xanga - in no way was i implying that christians make homeless people make these life choices, but a lack of love, and Love is the foundation of Christs teaching, does not translate when our right hand does one thing and the left another. Christians and non Christians alike have this downfall, but many non Christians do not go around preaching the message of Christ.
If the problem is in the streets, should we not be on the streets? Why do the troubled have to come find us? There is a place for the help churches give, and the shelters they provide, those services are wonderful fantastic services... but they don't reach everyone, they don't take everyone, and they are limited in their effectiveness.
Everyone wants dignity, even those who don't come for help. Some people who won't come for help are trying to hold on to what they feel is their only dignity. Not everyone is on the street because of poor life choices.
@cutieq24@xanga - this is one of my favourite things to do, i usually like to go with giftcards, this way it is not cash that can be used on drugs if that person has a problem with them, or offer to buy a coffee or something. I know its not the same as teaching someone to fish... but you need to be able to make it to the river if you want to catch anything.
As just one person, I feel overwhelmed by homelessness. Don't know what to do or how to help other than handing out money that I don't have. My church has a ministry with a homeless shelter where we do lots of outreach and collect food and clothing for the people in the shelter. I do other things at church; I am so glad that there are people in my church family out there on the front lines!
@comeonalice@xanga - Having worked in 'helps ministries' for many years, I would tell you plainly that the majority of these people do not want to address any of the issues that led them to the streets. From an insider's perspective, I can tell you that the ministries at my church and the charities we support locally are always looking for those who truly want to leave the park or the bridge. We have resources put aside for the very purpose of helping people return to society. The problem is not a lack of love on the part of myself or the people I serve with. The problem is that too many of the people we try to help don't really want to do more than 'get by' with a free meal or a jacket and shoes in winter.
Here's another problem. A lot of people like to quote Scripture from the sidelines and moralize in order to make themselves feel superior for having said the right thing, but there are too few people who are actually willing to come down in the trenches with us and try to help these people. The vast majority of the volinteers we have are Christians, and of the local charities we work with, again they are almost exclusively Christian workers. Off the top of my head I cannot think of one of our workers who is not motivated by religious faith.
You can say we're not doing enough, or you think we should do it differently, but I would suggest to you that we are the only ones by and large who are doing anything at all; that is certainly the case in my town, where we have a very large number of homeless (the primary reason being a result of drug abuse here), and it doesn't sit well to receive criticism from outside. I personally find it difficult to listen to anyone on this subject who isn't themselves a volinteer, because I've encountered too many people who enjoy criticizing how we do things when they themselves have never worked with the homeless or poor families.
Talk is cheap. Actions really do speak louder than words. Those who think they know how to do it better should get off their computers, find a church or local mission to plug into, and start serving instead bitching from a safe distance. That's not meant to be mean, just blunt. Either come help us out, or shut the %$&@ up. Seriously, come help. Volinteers get tired. Just one day a month will give somebody a break who needs it.
@JosephParsons@xanga - i am out there volunteering, i have been for years. I'm not tooting my horn on the side line... i have worked along side Christians and secular persons a like... I have been involved strongly in the church. I think these services are wonderful, I really do... but not enough people are out there. I also realize its not for everyone.
I am not saying YOU do it wrong, or the services the Church provides is going about it wrong. I am saying the persons who do nothing are going about it wrong.
I love working with the church when the church is working, i love being on the streets in Missions, i love showing the Love of Christ, sometimes an effective way to go about this though isn't through words its through actions. When I didn't know Jesus if someone went preaching to me it scared me... and when I came to know Jesus i couldn't shut up about Him... now I am learning in some cases it is best to show Jesus to help others come to know Him, rather than tell Jesus. Actions people understand far easier than words...
as far as your very blunt sentence... i completely agree with it.