Friday, 14 August 2009

  • An Approach to Holier Eating Habits

    On the Xanga title page, I've seen a huge number of blog titles dealing with eating (and drinking) disorders. For the Christian person, these can also be a real problem, but the believer recognizes that it is not only an emotional problem, but a spiritual one. Sin is deeply involved, and this sin needs to be confessed and addressed. I am a former bulimic and anorexic, and I think I know whereof I speak.  So, what does it look like when the Christian eats and drinks in a holy manner?

    A. The Christian is to enjoy God's provision. God has endowed food and drink with taste, color, texture,aroma, and the ability to nourish. He has given us senses to perceive all these. It is a sin to not enjoy your food! If you are guilty of not enjoying your food and giving praise to God for it, confess this now.

    B. The Christian does not make an idol of food or drink. We eat to live. We do not live to eat. We do not look to food for comfort, but seek out God's presence, truths and promises for this. Neither can food solve our problems, nor should it be the focus of our existence, nor should the Christian submit to being ruled by it. Have you made food an idol in any of these ways? If so, confess this now. 

    C. The Christian makes food and drink a servant of God, not ourselves. We share food, not hoard it. We use it and its attendant pleasures as a means of ministry. We praise God for it as His gift meant for our good and we serve it in a way that prompts glory to God.  We make it serve its purpose for nutrition to strengthen the body. If you use food to serve yourself, and not God, you are using this gift wrongly and should confess this to God.

    D. The Christian never uses food or drink to harm others or ourselves. We do not eat and drink to excess. We do not tempt others to abuse food. We do not serve unhealthy food. We do not withhold food, or force it on others, as a weapon. We do not lure people to harm themselves with it, and we do not use it for any purpose other than to glorify and enjoy God and nourish our bodies.

    E. God is interested in our holy use of food and drink to nourish our bodies and glorify Him. Therefore, if you are following the above, you need to understand that God is responsible for the shape of your body. You are free to be the person He wants you to be, whether plushy or willowy. He has designed you, and you are free. Do not let yourself be enslaved by this world's standards or by other people. Quit reading those magazines and watching the television shows that are making you believe falsehoods about your body.

    If you are guilty of any of the above, confess it to God, daily if necessary. Know that God sanctifies His people and forgives them today, tomorrow and forever because Jesus has already suffered the punishment for your sins. God is interested in making this aspect of your life holy, whole, and pleasing to Him. It may take many years, and you may not completely conquer in this life, but you may be certain that you are His if you continue to believe that Jesus could accomplish your sanctification.

    Do not ask God for a 'beautiful body', whatever you think that is. Ask Him to make you his obedient servant, and ask Him to help you make food your servant, and not your ruler. Make use of the grace of His goodness, that when He hears our confession of sin He promises to forgive. Then you will become more beautiful both inside and outside, according to His idea of beauty, for you.

    Do you agree that this is a Godly approach to eating? Has food ever become and idol or stumbling block in your life? Will this post change the way you think about food?

Comments (14)

  • MrsMcKagan@xanga

    Eating disorders are actually due to mental illness and brain chemicals, so to say sin is involved isn't really fair. Not all illnesses are caused by sin. There is no need to place blame on people who are ill. Things like this is what turns people off of Christianity.

  • craigellachie@xanga

    @MrsMcKagan@xanga - In the interest of sticking to my point, I did not bring up mental and emotional problems. They certainly do play a role. I myself am being treated for depression even now, and I can joyfully report that it has helped me a great deal. But anytime one perverts a good gift of God, sin is, by definition, involved, and needs to be confessed. You might think of the confession of sin as part of good therapy. I wish you well!

  • subSacred@xanga

    Good post. Christians, especially in  America, don't talk about Godly eating habits nearly as much as they should. Probably because they are too busy talking about smoking, abortion, and homosexuals.

  • MrsMcKagan@xanga

    @craigellachie@xanga - It doesn't matter if you brought it up or not. You said sin is deeply involved. Eating disorders are not about sin, eating disorders are mental illnesses. It has nothing to do with sin at all. Why try to tie the two together?

  • craigellachie@xanga

    @MrsMcKagan@xanga - Perhaps we need to back up a bit and work on a definition of sin. Here is a good old one:


    "Sin is any want of conformity unto, or transgression of, the law of God. (Leviticus 5:17. And if a soul sin, and commit any of these things which are forbidden to be done by the commandments of the LORD; though he wist it not, yet is he guilty, and shall bear his iniquity. James 4:17. Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin. 1 John 3:4. Whosoever committeth sin transgresseth also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law.)"


    How about if you tell me how your view of sin differs from this one and why. Then I think we can thresh this out one step at a time.

  • subSacred@xanga

    @MrsMcKagan@xanga - @MrsMcKagan@xanga - 

    Thats kinda tough. I've had quite a few close relationships with people who had eating disorders, and they all recognized that although they were in fact suffering from a mental/emotional/brain chemical problem, they still chose to do things that they knew were bad for them, out of selfishness or control issues etc. They are driven by illnesses that are out of their control, but I've not met one person with an eating disorder who has successfully overcome it who blames it all on something that their actions can't effect.

     I also think there are different ratios of pure physical illness versus acquired addiction due to poor choices. Not everyone with an eating disorder got there the same way. Some reacted to things around them by eating/not eating etc, and it eventually developed into something that can no longer be controlled. Others just always had some kind of imbalance, no doing of their own, that causes the behavior.

    Either way, although any kind of disorder is definitely a result of sin in the world, I'm not so sure that you can always say that actual eating disorders require confession of sin.

  • craigellachie@xanga

    Okay. So if I understand you correctly, then you do agree that there is sin due to fallenness in the world. So then would it be right to say that you also agree that all people can be called sinners?  Would you agree that all of us have in Adam sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, and that we should confess our inability to Him? I feel sure your answer to this is a yes, so I'll go on. General fallenness is the most basic sin that I am speaking of here, but not the only one.


    Luther also best expressed the idea that sin has three causes: the world, the flesh and the devil. I have found that when I sin, it is usually a mix of the three of these. With an eating disorder, the world contributes by making us believe something false: that being very thin is the most desirable physique a person can have. There is no such thing as too thin for some of these people. It's not the only wrong body image a person can have, of course, but being too thin to the point of endangering one's health is an abuse of the body, just as being too heavy for good and godly health. It involves cherishing an attitude that is contrary to godliness.


    The flesh contributes to this sin by putting one's own desires above God's. If I know that being healthy means not abusing my body, yet I stuff myself and then purge, it is I who am contributing to my own problem. No one is forcing me to eat, and no one forces me to purge. If someone were forcing me, then I could say that I was not guilty of sin-- just as in rape a woman is not guilty of adultery or fornication when someone forces himself on her. My flesh wants what it wants, and when I obey it instead of what God's desire for my health, then I fall short of His standard.


    Finally, the devil. There is no question we are tempted, and there is no question that Satan wants to destroy us. Unless we are alert, we will fall into his traps. But even if we do fall into a trap, the Lord promises that there is always a way out so that we do not have to sin. (And the cost of not sinning can be distressingly high). Augustine was a man who knew what he was capable of. After he became a believer, he would not even allow his own sister in a room alone with himself. Extreme, but he did not committ sexual sin in the body. We are called to that level of committment.


    If a person is downright out of their minds like the people in Scripture who harmed themselves, at some point they need to see their need for a Saviour who can save and heal them. If one is too crazy even for that, Scripture shows that believing friends can pray for them. I thoroughly believe that it is still possible for people to be possessed by demons (while I do not necessarily agree with many of the current modes of dealing with that). People are called to quit their bad behaviours. But if anyone does sin, we have a righteous intercessor, Jesus Christ the Righteous, and He is the payment for our sin, if we believe that He alone is the one Who is able to accomplish that..


    Our failure to meet any standard of God's righteousness calls for us to recognise this and, call on Him for the help we need. Harming oneself may be due to illness, but we can and should recognise it for what it is: a violation of God's standard. Only then can we recognise the fullness of how deeply Jesus loves us and how decisively we are saved, and begin on the road to real sanctification.


    Thanks for your conversation and thoughts.

  • MrsMcKagan@xanga

    @subSacred@xanga - I have to diagress again. It is not fair to say that someone with a mental illness (which an eating disorder is) does things out of "selfishness" or control issues. Would you say a person with OCD is doing their rituals out of selfish control issues? It is not a sin to have a disease and whatever symptoms manifest from that disease, those are not sins, they are symtoms. Calling them sins is uselss.


    You have to treat medical conditions as medical conditions, not sins.

  • Roadkill_Spatula@xanga

    The Christian never uses food or drink to harm others or ourselves. I was involved in a really fun food fight one time. And there are some hilarious things that can be done with raw eggs....


    I like the fact that your post emphasizes that God gave us good things to enjoy, rather than hammering at obesity and junk food.

  • subSacred@xanga

    @MrsMcKagan@xanga - All I'm saying is that one can bring a medical condition upon oneself by way of sinful behavior.  That isn't always the case, and I realize it certainly isn't always the case with eating disorders. But not everyone who starves oneself does it because of a disease that is beyond their conscious control, the same goes for overeating, purging or anything else related. I also know that not everyone does it out of selfishness or control issues.

    And I do want to point out that I'm just repeating the perspectives of those who no longer are controlled by eating disorders... I haven't dealt with it myself so I can't say I know for certain.

    This is the closest I've experienced:I've been clinically depressed, and being depressed wasn't a sin, but I often chose
    to sit in the dark for hours listening to gloomy songs and thinking of
    the gloomy past instead of finding something a little more encouraging
    to do, and that just made me more depressed, and eventually suicidal.
    My condition itself wasn't a sin on my part, but I knowingly chose to
    engage in self-destructive behavior that worsened my condition, and
    that was sinful.

    I know these are touchy areas, because there are those who mercilessly say that people with eating disorders just need to stop it, and grow up and eat normal. But I think there has been a crippling overreaction that leads to the other extreme, making all those who suffer from eating disorders think that trying to change their behavior is futile, and none of it ever has to do with personal choices that are made. I think the first extreme is completely horrible, but I think the last extreme can't be used to cover everyone's situation, or it will debilitate many who could be recovering.

    That's just from what I've studied, witnessed, and have been told by others who have dealt with it.

  • craigellachie@xanga

    @MrsMcKagan@xanga - At this point I think it's good to distinguish between mental illnesses which are physical in origin, and emotional illnesses which are psychological in origin, as well as recognise the fact that sometimes they overlap a bit. Eating disorders are usually expressions of the latter two kinds. There is an awful genetic disease, Lesch-Nyhan, that literally compels a person to self-harm and harm others, but it is a very rare disease. These people literally beg to be tied up and become distressed when they are not.


    In the end, I think we'll have to agree to disagree. For whatever reason-- clinical depression or emotional harm, the abuse of a gift of God is still the abuse of a gift of God. Those who suffer for its effects need to examine their hearts in a very deep way, seek the healing and forgiveness of God for it, and work honestly and carefully towards sanctification, keeping in mind that their salvation is secure as they do so.

  • discover_hienie@xanga

    wow.. i never think about many eating habits as a sin.. sin is a lot of things in life.. sometimes
    we don't even notice it is a sin until we do it.. it all falls into our actions too.. that is very true..

  • danielle_thexdino@xanga

    only on revelife.


    we should all stop eating apples. how about someone does a post about that?


  • Tanezia_Delight@xanga

    I think that if you focus on God and let him help you, then you can overcome your eating disorder. I think using food to abuse your body would be an interesting sin. It's like commiting suicide, a form of murder, when you think about it. So in that sense, I could see how you would say it is a sin. Brava.

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