Thursday, 09 July 2009
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The Slow Rot of Unresolved Sin
by Dave Burchett of Confessions of a Bad Christian (posted earlier this week at Worldmag.com)
I spent some time thinking about the sad story of Gov. Mark Sanford of South Carolina. He has been a vocal advocate of family values and faith. He boldly proclaimed his faith in Christ and his responsibility as a Christian public servant. Now his very public affair has damaged and perhaps ruined his marriage, career, and legacy.I used to be among the first to jump on the dogpile of condemnation for fallen Christian leaders. Now when I read about men like Mark Sanford, Ted Haggard, and John Ensign I am mainly sad. I am sad for their families and friends—and sad for those who were damaged by their sin.
I wondered how these men got to such a low point in their journey. Perhaps a bit of insight came from a recent Texas storm. Strong winds toppled a 50-foot-tall tree in a friend’s backyard. But strong winds are a part of every spring in Texas. Why did this particular storm fell a mature tree? The answer came as my friend cut up the fallen tree—it had completely rotted inside. There was no way to tell when you looked at the tree. The bark covered the decay and the leaves were green and pretty. But inside the tree was dying. It finally reached a point where there was not enough strength left in its core to withstand another storm.
The example from nature is a metaphor for how we can topple as Christians and completely surprise those around us. We wear masks. We look good. We say the right things. We stay busy doing Christian things. But the slow rot of sin is decaying our judgment and relationship with Jesus.
Tree experts will tell you that often a small wound in a tree left unattended will allow fungus to enter and begin the destructive process. If the wound had been treated, the disease could have been halted with little or no damage. Perhaps a wound occurred in the hearts of the men listed above. Perhaps pride or fear or simply not knowing what to do caused them to ignore the wound in their souls. And that opening allowed the slow decay of unresolved sin that led to their fall.
The metaphor reminded me of the Scripture where Jesus railed against the “self-righteous” religious leaders:
“What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are so careful to clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside you are filthy—full of greed and self-indulgence! You blind Pharisee! First wash the inside of the cup and the dish, and then the outside will become clean, too” (Matthew 23, NLT).
I know me. I know that I must seek the illuminating light of the Holy Spirit to help me see the filth and greed and self-indulgence that lies within or I could fall with a sickening thud as well. I am sad for Mark Sanford today. I pray for his wife and his handsome sons. I know that forgiveness and redemption are available for all of them. But I also know the terrible consequences of sin. He has paid and will pay a terrible price and so will those he has hurt. I would ask you to pray for Gov. Sanford and for other Christian leaders that fail. Before you smite them with the hypocrite hammer I would ask you to look in the mirror. If you see what I see you will extend grace to those who fail. What I see in the mirror is a person who was saved only by grace. I see a person who is capable of failing if I do not lean wholly on that grace every day. A person who does not want to hurt the heart or cause of Jesus because I am so grateful for His amazing grace. I like the way The Message translates Paul’s words to the Galatians:
“If someone falls into sin, forgivingly restore him, saving your critical comments for yourself. You might be needing forgiveness before the day’s out. Stoop down and reach out to those who are oppressed. Share their burdens, and so complete Christ’s law. If you think you are too good for that, you are badly deceived” (Galatians 6, The Message).
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Comments (13)
I think about stuff like this. I try to be honest when I am overcoming by things, but it is easy to let it go and have it fester.
i remember hearing about this and i thought it was pretty sad having to hear about this..
i am originally from south carolina so this was pretty hard to hear.. we all make mistakes
and i am pretty sure he felt bad for what he had done
hmm, forgive because you will need forgivness later...
Hard sometimes, but great Biblical advice.
I have to say I feel terrible for Gov. Sanford. I truly appreciate his honesty in light of this hard time.. I can only imagine how his family feels. A Christian myself, I know my weaknesses. I think anyone who calls this man a hypocrite is fooling themselves, and I would beg them to look to themselves. I know what I am capable of, even as one who loves the Lord her God and thanks Him for His mercy upon her every day. I'm still a sinner. A saved one, but yet a sinner. As I look to myself, to my own iniquities and my own failures, I know that I can't condemn Sanford for anything he admits to have done. He claims a "tragic love story" rather than just a silly sexually-charged affair... and I believe him. And I feel sorry - not just for him, but with him. Personally, I don't know which is worse as a Christian, but I do feel extremely sad for his family. Frankly, it sucks.
Thank you for this post. Everyone needs to hear this.
On a general level, it's really the pits when you try to patch up an unresolved issue so that the devil can't gain a foothold--and-for whatever reason, the other parties involved will not allow a patch-up at that time!
Excellent post-- These men and their families all need our prayers. Not only them, but our spiritual leaders as well. Satan attacks those in leadership positions because he knows the weight they carry. If he can cause them to sin and then turn on them and expose their sins, he knows he has them. So continued prayers for God's children and the leaders he has over them are very much needed.
@thats_prettyxscene@xanga - I was thinkin about this-- Sanford is, technically a hypocrite. Perhaps the problem is not calling him that, or even recognizing the sinfulness of his sin (after all, sin is sin), but I think the problem comes when he is called "hypocrite" with bitterness and hatred. Each of us has to learn to "restore" our brethren in lovingkindness. So obviously it starts at recognizing sin as sin, and then starting the healing process. So, there's no excuse for sin, neither should we be tolerant of it, but there is abundant grace by God, so we should not worry about "condeming" the person who has sinned when they are seeking forgiveness.
anyway, just my thoughts. Definitely something we can pray over He (and we all) need the prayers!
He is handling the situation horribly. He just needs to shut up.
We can all fall as badly (or worse) than the Governor at any time. Yes, often there is a slow rot, but not always.
If we don't think we can sin like he did, then we need to go back and examine what the Bible says about our sin nature and our propensity to sin. As Christians we have a new nature, but the flesh continues to lust against the Spirit. It is a continuing battle. So long as we are in these earthly bodies, we will be tempted.
We can be walking closely w/ Christ, there can be no slow rot, but in the blink of an eye, Satan can bring a temptation and we can fall. He knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows the Scripture better than we know it. If for a moment, we let down our guard, if for a moment we remove ourselves from the stream of living water, or put off a part of the whole armor, we can fall. Any moment. Any time. Any place. We can never think we are immune from his schemes. We could be walking w/ Christ, abiding, cultivating our relationship w/ God and then Boom! We have to remember that Satan is always prowling, seeking someone to devour, therefore, we must always be diligent to guard against his schemes. He is a liar and the father of lies and he appears as an angel of light.
He boldly proclaimed his faith in Christ and his responsibility as a Christian public servant.
What if Sanford was a liar? What if he claimed all the Christian values just so he could get elected?
I'm with Mark Twain. The Congress is a legally sanctioned pack of criminals. What is totally amazing is that the majority of Americans believe in handing over our sick, elderly and poor to an organized crime syndicate.
My sins do not rot in me. Either they are not substantial enough or I just do not care about them.
Wow this is true. Amazing stuff right here. Sometimes we fill our hearts with so much pride that we are blinded spiritualy. W must always lean on Christ his what will show us the things that need to be cleaned out and fixed.
Gov. Mark Sanford of South Carolina has been a vocal advocate of family values and faith because that’s what gets votes. He didn’t fall because he let the Jesus inside wither away; he fell because he got his hand stuck in the cookie jar. Thank God for the winds that knocks over the rotten wood.