Friday, 03 July 2009

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  • harmonyminusmelody@xanga

    @Ork58@xanga - THIS! best reply yet. you can claim to veil (a made up verb btw) for all sorts of reasons, but there's always that sneaky little reason that you're doing it to feel more holy. so that you can feel more holy than, say, my girlfriend who let's her hair down. who wears *GASP* shorts and tank tops. maybe she even shows her toes!

    some things in the bible are PERIOD SPECIFIC. considering it is a MAN who is writing about how to repress WOMAN, and since it's in the bible the women actually think they WANT to be repressed, it's all very sexist. you're imposing restrictions on yourself because you have to follow everything to the letter, even when it's not meant for that. you gloss over the fact that even unveiled woman can go to heaven *GASP AGAIN*.

  • Ork58@xanga

    @Kristenmomof3@xanga - right. And Jesus picked and ate grains on the Sabbath, a direct contradiction of the Laws of the Torah, also "going against the Bible". You cannot pick and choose your scriptures to support your position.

  • Kristenmomof3@xanga

    @Ork58@xanga - actually Yeshua (Jesus) picking and eating like He did on the sabbath did not break the Torah. He broke the Talmud which is the added on Man (rabbi) made rules. HE broke rules made by man but not rules made by G-d.

    Had He broken the Rules made by G-d then He would not have been the spotless lamb of G-d without blemish. HE would have had blemish then and his death would have meant NOTHING. It would have been pointless had he sinned.

  • x_six_string_samurai_x@xanga

    it represents sexism and subjugation of women in my mind. men made women wear them in the ancient times to have control over women, men make women wear them now to have control over women. while a small portion of women may wear them out of choice, most do not so it is hard to not assume it is out of the wearers choice. and regardless, it still represents sexism.

  • Ork58@xanga

    While you may be technically correct, you are missing the bigger picture. This is the challenge that Jesus has while here on His earthly miinstry. He constantly tried to get people to see the bigger picture, not get hung up in the minutia and details. That was the common fault of the Pharisees and Sadducees, they were so concerned about following the letter of the law they forgot or ignored the intent or spirit of the law. 


    Jesus' behavior caused people around him (in the picking grains on the Sabbath issue) to believe He was violating the laws of Sabbath. His teaching was that Sabbath was made for man, not the other way around. Jesus whole ministry was a new way of thinking and interacting with God. His human life and earthly ministry was the fulfilment of the O.T and the ten commandments. He pointed out by example the fallacy of their beliefs, and that however well intentioned, they were still wrong. The idea of covering a womans head was as much societal as it was religious.


    Do you really believe that a woman, who prays to God through Jesus, confesses that she is a sinner and needs His forgiveness and salvation, (and is granted this gift) will not be allowed in heaven because her head was not covered? Can you honestly say you believe that?


    Jesus did all sort of things that were controversial in His ministry while on earth. That is what enraged the Pharisees and Sadducees so much. They really, sincerely, thought they had it right. They thought they had the corner on the Truth, and that their way of seeing things was the only way. 


    Remember, God comes to man in a way and form that man can understand and comprehend. Moses saw a column of fire, a burning bush, etc. The Law tells the tales of mans interaction with God in a corporate form, not an individual personal relationship with God. That did not occur until Jesus' presence. The OT portrays Gods interactions with His chosen people in a group fashion. The NT portrays Gods interaction with individual people through the person of Jesus, in a one-on-one fashion. Jesus teaches us that we have a direct connection to God through Him, we need no intercessor. Jesus was the intercessor, and He eternally cemented that position through His death and resurrection. This was also demonstrated by the tearing of the cloth, from top to bottom, surrounding the Holy of Holies in the Temple at the time Jesus was crucified and resurrected.


    Too many times people get hung up on the minutia and forget the larger lessons Jesus taught us by example and parable. Jesus often used stories that the people of that day and age could relate to. That is why he often talked about sheep and sheperds, farmers and farming, ranching and cattle/animal raising, fishing/fishermen.  I am sure if Jesus ministry while on earth would have been in an area like Alaska or Northwest Territories, there would have been stories relating to polar bears and Eskimos, ice fishing and hunting.


    If Jesus were to appear here on earth with us today, He would come and talk in a way we can understand, in our own native languages, and give us examples that relate to our daily lives so we can understand His teachings.


    There are many paths into Heaven. Different ages and civilizations at different eras throughout history have encountered God in one way or another. Do you really think God would condemn all the Stone Age people to eternal damnation and the flames of hell because they never had a chance to know Jesus? Or the Aborigines, who ate most of the missionaries who brought the Gospel? Even Jesus told us "I have sheep of which you  know not".  This opens the door to other pathways into the eternal presence of God.


    The Bible is a compilation and record of God's interaction with mankind, through the Jewish people, and eventually through the person of Jesus. We see in the stories how salvation is extended to all peoples (Gentiles) 


    The teachings we need to get along with each other, to serve God and fulfil the two greatest commandments are included in the Bible. We are to read the Bible for inspiration, not literally, for many of the writings were fiction to start with. Wise sayings and parables from over 4,000 B.C. and appear in other pre-historic writings are what make up most of Proverbs. Fantasy and drama, like Daniel and Revelation, give a message that good triumphs over evil in the end, and that despite everything evil (the Devil, Beelzebub, whatever-you-want-to-call-it-this-week) throws at us, in the end, God triumphs and reigns supreme, and we are to be with Him in His glory eternally. Depending on your particular beliefs, the Intertestamental literature gives great insight into Jewish rituals and rites, including the start of the Menorah in the Maccabees, the stories of Jesus as a child turning clay into birds, and other sorts of events (Infancy Gospel of Thomas)  Even the Pseudepigriphal  literature has some value, althought it really doesn't shed much new information that isnt already repeated in the OT or Apocrypha.


    I see by your site you like to use the old Hebrew names for God, or "G-d" as you seem to like to say. Adonai, El, El Shaddai, El Elyon, Avinu, etc. Again, what is the point? Unless you are learning ancient languages, why use them? Those are merely titles. YHWH is the Tetragrammon, the true name of God as revealed in the Law, or Torah, or Tanakh, whichever you choose to use.  There is no magic in using the ancient terms. Do you really think God is so shallow that when we cry out to Him He won't hear us unless we know the magic words or name to use? God is infinitely more wise and compassionate and understanding than we can possibly comprehend.


    It seems to me that those who insist on using archaic languages and terms only confuse others, that they somehow possess the "magic miracle words and terms" that will conjure up the direct connection with God. Jesus would probably be ROFL with that whole idea. When He was here on His earthly ministry, he used all sorts of terms for God. Daddy, Father, Teacher, God, etc. Those are titles, much like you respond to "Mom" or "Sis" or "daughter". Jesus teachings were not to confuse or dismay the people, but to educate and enlighten them. Seems he delighted in messing with the Pharisees, tweaking them about their silliness and piety. Please don't fall into the same trap. 

  • tillseptemberends@xanga

    @Ork58@xanga -  I totally agree with you !!! 

  • SirNickDon@xanga

    Maybe I'm unusual, but my initial reaction to seeing that set of pictures was, "Look, a bird."

  • tillseptemberends@xanga

    I believe that women should be allowed to wear what they want . If they want to be veiled by their own will then I totally support that. I think personally the veil is a symbol of oppression but it might mean something different to you which I totally don't have a problem with.
     I don't people necessarily hate women who are veiled it's more pity because of what it usually symbolizes.
     Another thing is , is that  you probably believe that women who don't wear a veil are sinning . Or maybe that's an impression i'm getting.
       I know what it says in the bible and yes there are passages that are very Literal but there are others that are more cultural and symbolic.  The whole thing about wearing a covering . It all depends on how you interpret certain verses in the bible. Here is one I found that says that pretty much if you have long hair that is the same as wearing a veil or covering.

    1 corinthians 11(New American Standard Bible)

    15

    but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her? For her hair is given to her for a covering.

    Also I think a lot of the whole veil thing is more of a recommendation not a command by God.

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  • quiversound@xanga

    I often am in the drive-thru at work. On two occasions, a woman came through and ordered a coffee. It was only when I went to hand it out that I saw only two eyes looking back at me. The woman had covered her whole face with cloth, only leaving the most important parts out. Instantly, I had a jerking twitch of a reaction. I was so taken aback by it that I wasn't positive how to handle it at all. I really wanted to turn around and pull myself together because the last thing that I wanted this woman to think was that I was different from her. Or that I was better than her. Or that I had any sort of negative thought about her. Well, I didn't. It's just that I'm not around people who are like that ever. The one thought I did have was related to my recent health kick and that was: "does she ever get any sunlight? Sunlight is good and healthy for you." Otherwise, on the second occasion she came through, I made no sort of visible reaction to her, at least none that I was aware of. "Have a nice day." and I haven't seen her since.

  • devoted2Him@xanga

    Well, this is an interesting post. To all those that think that all women are repressed because they are veiled I would like to make a point. I wear a veil ... following I Corinthians 11 and I feel completely liberated in my heart because of Jesus. On the other hand those of you that are following all the fads of hair fashion are considered just as repressed if you allow this dictate your style. Their is a ditch on either side. I do not judge you for not wearing a veil and I don`t feel judged by anyone because I wear one. I believe if we have the love of Jesus in our hearts..... that shines... veiled or not.

  • naphtali_deer@xanga

    Instead of being concerned about whether we cover our heads or not, let's be sure we are covered with the blood of Christ by believing in His sacrifice on the cross. Christ's blood is what saves us in the end, not whether we choose to cover our heads (or what we choose to eat, or what day we choose to worship, etc., etc.). The Bible tells us the blood of Christ (not whether we veil) cleanses us from all sin.

    In terms of Christian liberty, you are free to veil, but know that since you live in a culture that generally does not accept head coverings, your choice to veil will be seen as counter-cultural. If you truly believe God is directing you to veil and you are doing it out of a pure heart of obedience (as opposed to trying to earn your salvation by works, or thinking you are more spiritual than those who choose not to veil), then He will help you to do it without grumbling and complaining and He will help you to have His joy and peace as you do so.

  • chnike112

    go ahead kristen do what brings you closer to the holy. all of you naysayers are the reason why christianity puts a bad taste in my mouth. bickering and nit picking and hating. way to be like jesus

  • aurastar@xanga

    For many it's just fear of something different.  Why is she deciding NOT to show herself off?  Every girl wants to entrance a guy with their stunning beauty, right?  Or maybe insecurities about themselves because they feel they have to show off to be accepted, so they want you not to be accepted so they can continue to feel that you have to show yourself off shallowly to be liked.  Or maybe it's because of the feeling that you're hiding something scary about your personality just like you're hiding a part of your appearance.  What's she look like underneath that cloth?  Is she ugly?  Is she pretty?  I can't judge her appearance because I can't see her!  Maybe she's hiding something?


    Personally, I have nothing against it.  However, one day I saw a teacher at my school that I didn't know.  She was wearing a cloth over her hair.  I had nothing against her, but she automatically made me nervous just because she wasn't what I was used to seeing at school.  I'm okay with her now because I've seen her a couple times, but it was just the fact I had to get used to her being there.

  • KiraWuzHerexD@xanga

    It's ridiculous to hate/fear that. I mean. Americans started out with those little head covers in the beginning to start with!

  • staystrong_thinkthin@xanga

    Nothing is absolutely wrong with covering your head. I am a Muslim, and though I don't wear it, I plan it. You can't be forced into wearing it, but you're expected to wear it soon. 

  • KateeLee1@xanga

    "Man looks on the outside appearance but God looks upon the heart"
    No hate- no fear- just a desire to see it done for the right reasons- not by force or by ritual but out of love for God- if that's not the reason- its a waste of cloth!

    And from what I've heard from the Pres. of the USA, that is their biggest concern on a Federal level.
    They know that a lot of cultures that push covering, also push attitudes that are unhealthy for women.
    How they are dealing with it is up for debate but that is their concern and it is a good one.

  • AmistadBaby@xanga

    After reading so many of your posts about modest clothing, I've become much more comfortable with seeing someone dressed different than me.

  • snowvampire@xanga

    People are afraid of what they don't understand.  And Christians sadly aren't very in tune with their religion either.  There is nothing wrong with women of any faith covering out of modesty or because their religion tells them to.  Many women CHOOSE of their own will to cover their hair, face or body out of modesty.  Only immoral women and an immoral society thinks it is repressive for women to cover.  I choose to cover my hair because I want men to respect me for me and not for my body.  Covering my hair doesn't hinder me from communicating and if people can't get past a cloth on your hair or your face then they are losers in my opinion and ignorant idiots.  The Bible says to cover your hair that it is a "woman's shining glory".  The Bible also says that if a woman has long hair and doesn't cover it she should shave it all off! 

  • pb49r@xanga

    I know for me it is not hate, just intrigue.  a woman's hair is sexy, and I've enjoyed looking at women, and their hair, since I was a little kid.  It wasn't until my wedding night that I realized one could sufficate (or think they were) in all that hair, if it was not kept absolutely clean.

  • snowvampire@xanga

    I'm not oppressed by covering my hair.  Men respect me for me and not my looks.  I don't have to dress sexy in order to get a job or get a pay raise.  My husband doesn't force me to cover. I do it of my own free will and choice and because it's a command from God Almighty.  I'm not less of a human because I cover. I choose not to interact with society of my own free will but that is how I've always been. I've never liked interacting with people.  What is wrong with wanting to cover myself and reveal myself only to my husband?  I don't have to "conform" to immorality or dress like a whore to be a free woman.  I have a voice and can voice my opinion. I'm not chained to my house and banned from being outside.  I'm in college earning a degree.  I plan on continuing my education to get my B.A. and eventually my Master degree.  I graduated high school at the top 50 of my class in June 2006.  I was Saltatorian in 11th grade.  I'm in no way "less intelligent" then a woman who doesn't cover.  I choose modesty over confirming to Western society's views of how women should look.  I'm a free woman and a free human being. 

  • I_ChooseThin@xanga

    I don't hate them or am afraid of them. I guess I'm just intimidated because I feel as if I am not doing enough as a Christian. But it's not a conviction of mine. In my church, it is frowned upon for women to cut their hair (apparently that's the interpretation they got from 1 Corinthians), but I have no conviction against cutting my own hair because I know that it won't change who I am. I believe that a woman should look like a woman and vice versa. I'm sure that you would be very uncomfortable to go in public without a veil, just as I would feel uncomfortable going into public with one. The Bible also says to seek out your own salvation, and to me that means applying certain things to your life if it will better your relationship with God and getting rid of the things that will harm it. If you did something that was socially acceptable but you felt no need to take part in it, it could make you bitter, therefore harming your relationship with God. See what I mean? Sorry for such a long comment, by the way

  • HouseSparrow@xanga

    For myself, I figure do what you want within the law. I'm all for the new French approach regarding covering the face. I like to see who is walking towards me on a lonely street.

  • athenapinz@xanga

    i wear veil on head too.
    i did it for fashion.
    and to mess with general people.

  • chadwilly@xanga

    You cant make huge presumptions of the entire western world like that!
    .

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