Saturday, 28 February 2009

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  • jmallory@xanga

    My family trusts what I say, but they have a hard time understanding me...

  • AshleyKnows@xanga

    Yes, I can! My family is very cool...my parents are Buddhists, my brother is atheist, and I am Christian, the progressive kind. I feel very comfortable discussing my faith, but I have never been placed in the position where I felt it necessary...I work, pay my taxes, help out family and friends when I can, give to charity, the same things my family do, Christian or not. All faiths in that way, to me, have similar qualities that converge with love of family and community, common sense morality, generosity of spirit, etc..

  • Audiofreak18@xanga
  • SirNickDon@xanga

    Hey, where did Revelife find a picture of my family?

  • deepestrecesses

    My father and I are very close and discuss a lot of spiritual things together.  My wife and I talk all the time about God, the bible, and other spiritual matters.

    Unfortunately, her family, my mother, brother, and most the rest of my extended family do not want to hear anything about the Holy Spirit, repentance or anything that might lead to a change in their own lives.  Even when it's not said in application to them.

    In addition my mother condemns me to hell because I left their denomination to go to a Bible Church here.

    So very interesting dinamics there.

  • LoBornlyte@xanga

    My father and older sister are devout Catholics.  My younger sister got sucked into university level, leftist academia and is an athiest.


    Young sister is only on speaking terms with Pops.  The very idea that we are old-style Christians is loathsome to her.


    Older sis and Pops love to hear me go on about Saint Thomas Aquinas.  The way he melds reason with faith satisfies our very natural spiritual hunger.


    I am amazed at their home-spun wisdom and devotion to family and community.

  • msarianne@xanga

    i'm able to talk to my parents about my faith all the time. they're the ones who provided the founation for my faith actually. but my brothers. i try to encourage them, and i leave the opportunity open for them to really come to be about it [or any thing else too]. i can see their really opening up to our awesome God though. 

  • jupiter312@xanga

    I can talk to my father about my agnosticism (we're both agnostic), but I can't talk to the rest of my family, who are all Catholic.  It doesn't really bug me, because I know that if I did talk to them, I would just end up getting harassed about it by my grandma.

  • x_Butterflies_and_Hurricanes_x@xanga

    No.  I tried to talk to my mom about my changes in faith and she only scolded me and told me she didn't like what she was hearing and that I needed to go to church more.  I only wanted to share with her something that was important to me and I thought she would be more receiving.  Unfortunately I was disappointed to find it didn't turn out that way. 

  • LovingYouIsMyBiggestFlaw@xanga

    My faith seems to be the only thing I can talk to my family about. I've made a lot of mistakes in my life, that they know of, but the one thing that's never changed is my faith. I've always been strong in my faith and it seems to be the only thing I can talk to my parents about to make them feel proud. My family and I are all cradle Catholics, and they are always talking about religion. Everyone in the world somehow relates to religion and sitting down for dinner turns into a biblical or somehow religious conversation. I have a lot a couple disagreements with Catholic beliefs but my parents and I always debate about them. If I ever feel like my faith is failing, I know I can always go to my parents and talk about it. In fact, I don't think I would go anywhere else.

  • colors_fade@xanga

    my immediate family, yes...we are all close and talk about spiritual matters all the time!

    my extended family (cousins, aunts, uncles..etc.) not so much, they know where i stand, but don't want to discuss it often.

  • too_pretty_to_die@xanga

    my mom, yes.  everyone else, no... they are far too conservative and ignorant.  it doesn't really bother me.  i'm an adult now and don't need my family's approval on anything, least of all my beliefs.

  • Stephanie_J_B@xanga
  • CrazySwede@xanga

    No. Mom and Dad are Catholic; they raised me that way, but God kept pursuing me, and I was saved at 17, baptized at 18. I love talking about Jesus and what He is doing and has done in my life. Dad thinks I joined a cult; Mom just doesn't care.

  • stuartandabby@xanga

    Absolutely.  I find it very uplifting.

  • Cheri_Herald@xanga

    I can talk easily to the believers in my family.  The athiests want to mock me and don't want to hear about God. It's pretty much the same way it is with non-family.

  • K_Dean@xanga
  • TheFlyingIrish@xanga

    I am very comfortable talking with my family about my faith.  My parents and I disagree on a few things, but we know where each other stands and love each other.     My sister and I disagree on everything since she is an unbeliever and currently not receptive to the Gospel.   Hence, I speak little to her about Christianity so as not to uncharitablly force it on her.

  • jodine50@xanga

     Yes,

    I am very proud of my faith, My family are all Mormon, and I am not. I claim no denomination, I am just Christian.My husband was raised Catholic, but now also claims no denomination.I respect others and their right to believe what they choose, whether it be Catholic, Mormon, Buddhist, Baptist, or even the Native American beliefs of Nature.I even respect Athiests, I obviously don't aree with them, but they have a right to choice.I will discuss my faith with anyone who wishes to discuss it, and I always take the time to say, God Bless You.My husband and I have our own website of faith, It is kingdomofgod.ws where we post photos of our travels, some scripture, and basically words of love and hope.It is available to anyone and everyone, regardless of denomination.We are both ordained chaplains, no we have no church, our hearts are our pulpit. In our small town we officiate at weddings and funerals, and read the bible with people who are ill and cannot attend services.Our ministry is love and hope and the joy we have found in Jesus. We only hope to share with those that request it.I think it's my respect for others, that makes me able to discuss my beliefs, People are not threatened, as I allow them their freedom and while I proudly display my faith, I don't judge or presume that I have the right to force my beliefs on others. Judgement is not mine, but God's, and only through forgivness do I deserve to be forgiven.

  • jodine50@xanga
    Lots of Love

    @AshleyKnows@xanga - My dearest friend,

    you never cease to amaze me. You are so loving so genuine.You are so right, regardless of our beliefs, I too feel we all have a goal of love, family and simple moral boundries. What a beautiful world it would be, if everyone could do just as Jesus asked, To love one another, as He has loved us, no judgements, no anger, the willingness to share and to forgive, for we all are sinners, and only through Jesus can our sins be forgiven. Again, I am reminded of why I am so proud to call you friend......
  • xSafety_x_Pinned_x_Heartx@xanga

    Absolutely not.


    I'm the black sheep.
    I walked away from their faith, and if they knew, they would disown me.

  • ChristiansandMormons

    My dad died when I was a teenager, but he had always said we could go to any church except Jewish, Catholic, and Mormon.  My mom didn't speak to me for a week when I told her I was joining the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, but later, after she had seen the change it brought in me (which was like night and day) she became a big supporter and always had good things to say about the church.  As for my dad, well he would roll over in his grave knowing that he now has two Mormon daughters and one Catholic! LOL!

  • AshleyKnows@xanga
    Something sweet.

    @jodine50@xanga - 


    Thank you so much!! Reading over your comment to this entry, I know and understand you all the better! It is no surprise to me that you and your husband are chaplains (travelling chaplains on scooters at that!) with no denomination, but the love of Jesus to light your faith.


    I respect and cherish your open heart, your enlightened mind, and the love and blessings, and the hope, you have planted like flowers in friends, the ones you found along your journey to the kingdom of God. I am proud to be counted as one.


    God bless always.

  • unshunnedchristian@xanga
  • jodine50@xanga

    @AshleyKnows@xanga -  Thank You so much,

    It's I who am so very blessed, everything I am I owe to Jesus.And my best blessings are the people I have met and now call friend, people like you.......
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