Saturday, 13 December 2008
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Pope Benedict XVI's Christmas Gift
Guest post submitted by PlasticPill

Now, I've always known about the church's strong stance against homosexuality. And for the most part, I've always agreed with it. I think, like ALL sins, it separates us from God. But I've never felt that engaging in homosexuality was worse than another sin. They're all bad.
My confusion though, is why the Pope would refuse to sign a U.N. declaration to end discrimination against homosexuals, when a whopping 27 European Union countries (that's all of them!) have backed it.
Personally, I'm against homosexuality, but I've always felt that it was just my belief, what I was raised up in. I've never felt like I should be forcing that belief on others. I have gay friends, and they know I'm Catholic. Not once have I told them what I thought they were doing was sinful, or wrong. It's their choice, long as their happy and they're not bothering me with it, I could care less.
But when I read the article, about the Pope's refusal to sign a declaration to end discrimination against people, I have to ask myself, "Really? Is this what Jesus would do?"I'm not perfect, and I certainly don't have the answer either. But if I saw someone vilifying someone else for being gay, I'd think they were horrible, and I would defend the gay person. I just don't see why the Pope could of quietly ignored this declaration. What good is he bringing us by this?
Catholics and non-Catholics alike, I invite any and all of your comments, harsh in nature as they may be. I have a thick skin, I can handle your bashing about my faith.But what are you thoughts on this? Is the Pope doing good here? I want to believe he is, I'm just struggling to see it.
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To be honest, this doesn't surprise me a lot. The Catholic Church believes what it believes, and I feel like they are consistent (better than most Protestants at least) with acting on what they believe.
I'm not familiar enough with the church's official position on homosexuality though. Does the church teach that simply BEING gay is a sin, or is it only homosexual sex that is sinful? I ask, b/c if they teach the former, then I kinda understand why the Pope did what he did, but if it's the latter....then I'm left scratching my head.
The article did say that the issue that they (the Catholic Church) have is that countires that don't recognise same-sex marriage will 'get in trouble' somehow. I understand the church's position on same-sex marriage, and if that REALLY is their concern, then I guess I can understand why the Pope did what he did. For the church, marriage is a sacrament....I imagine that they don't really see that there even CAN be a 'civil marriage' (though I will admit this is an assumption on my part regarding what the church believes/teaches).
"But when I read the article, about the Pope's refusal to sign a declaration to end discrimination against people, I have to ask myself, "Really? Is this what Jesus would do?"
Are you seriously asking if that is what Jesus would do? The Bible says it's an abomination not discrimination! Therein lies the problem!
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - The issue is that some of those countries that criminilize homosexuality do it under pain of death. I certainly hope you wouldn't condone the death of any person for their own private life, no matter how much you disagree with it.
And I got to thinking about this after I left the above comment. It was originally turned "homosexuality" I believe, from the Bible in fact. Then, we called it an "alternative lifestyle". Then came a subcategory of "transgender". What is next? It's still the same thing...homosexuality, and I know the Bible calls it an abomination, but I do agree with you that it's no worse a sin, at least in my opinion, :)
Somone can tell a lie to avoid hurting someone's feeling, to soften the hardness of telling the truth, etc., but when you cut to the core of it, it's still a lie. Why not just call it that from the git-go?
Just my thoughts, :)
@thirst2@xanga - I have never heard of anyone doing it under "pain of death." In fact, that is the first I have ever hard of that term. Of course, I would not condone the death of any person for such but likewise I would never support homosexuality. Just know I love all regardless of their sexual lifestyle, but I could never stand in support of it, :)
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - heh, sorry, my own wording. I think I've been watching too much Lord of the Rings.... But yes, Iran, for example, kills anyone found to be a homosexual. That's the biggest issue with this situation, I think.
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - Just to clarify, are you saying that you honestly didn't know that in some countries you can be put to death for being gay?
If that's what you meant, here is a list of countries that have the death penalty for homosexuality:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_laws_of_the_world
(I had recently seen a 'better' list somewhere else, but can't seem to find it now).
@thirst2@xanga - lol at you and Lord of the Rings, :)
Well, I didn't know that, thank you! But no, of course, not, I would not think death was right. And this made me wonder why homosexuality is said to be an abomination in the Bible and not all sins. While I would never tell God he was wrong in his thoughts, of course, lol, makes me wonder why that one is said to be an abomination and not the others. Don't really seem fairly, honestly, in my simple, worldly mind, but I didn't make the rules, lol, :)
first of all, you should never trust the liberal media to give accurate information about the Catholic Church. liberals love to portray Catholics as evil and hateful, something i've learned through experience..
in reference to this particular situation, Fr. Lombardi has responded on behalf of the Vatican to criticisms of its actions by clarifying that while the Church does not support discrimination against homosexuals, it opposes documents and movements which suggest the idea that all sexual orientations are equal in all situations. refusal to sign this document does not stem from support for discrimination, but rather from a refusal to treat homosexuality as equal to heterosexuality when it has been so clearly taught in Scripture and in the Church's Sacred Tradition that homosexuality is indeed an abomination in the eyes of God. contrastingly, heterosexuality is fruitful love at its most pure.
the Holy Father is absolutely setting the example of a model Christian in his actions.
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - It's not the only thing that God calls an abomination.
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - I don't think the poster is asking whether Jesus would have gay sex. Only whether he went around enacting national laws against sins.
In other words, do you believe that Jesus would want nations to be permitted to execute homosexuals, which is the case in several Middle-Eastern nations, and the sort of thing the declaration is specifically worded against?
I always thought Jesus was a win-them-over-through-love kind of guy, but possibly you see it differently?
@hubbaduh@xanga - Yes, that's what I'm saying. I honestly didn't know, but then again, I guess I just assumed people only admitted it here. Perhaps I'm naive, I guess, :(
@hubbaduh@xanga - I didn't say it was the ONLY thing God called an abomination. Just that one in specific I as compared to the others sins makes me wonder why it's seemingly worse, :)
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - I agree with you. I think God is against all sin, and to say "Yeah, do whatever you want." is basically accepting it.
No, we can't force anyone to believe in God and separate from sin, but we don't have to promote it. People get mixed up and associate discrimination against homosexuality as meaning discriminating against the person. No, it's against the act itself. As a Christian, I can't vote for a law that promotes homosexuality as a good or healthy lifestyle. God says it's wrong, so I am against it.
Just as I am against adultry, murder, fornication, lying, and all other forms of sin. This is why the world is such moral decay. Satan wants us to think that we cannot speak out and say when something is wrong. In reality, being silent only encourages it.
@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - I believe He does mean for us to win them over through love but not to do so by supporting something he frowns on, :)
@Celtic_haven@xanga - :), I concur.
@sirnickdon - I believe He does mean for us to win them over through love but not to do so by supporting something he frowns on, :)
Sorry, that was meant for sirnickdon
@musicislife446@xanga - well said. :) no real comment from me necessary now. once i realized what news site the article was from and the OBVIOUS bias in it, I knew I needed more info from a reliable source.
Jesus forgives sinners and associates with them but He does not condone their sins and has never stated that it is right for them to sin as they wish. However He guides sinners away from sin as a good shepherd does. The pope being the spiritual head of the Catholic Church would have to make the Church's stand clear.
Not signing the declaraton does not mean that the Church allows or teaches that it is alright to discriminate against homosexuals.@JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga - I'm just having a hard time with this. It's not about gay marriage, or approval of homosexuality. The majority of the nations that signed the declaration refuse to legalize same-sex marriage.
It's about nations not being allowed to execute homosexuals, or deny them their livelihood. You simply cannot argue that the Christ of scripture approves of humans treating humans that way.
So a Christian body like the Catholic church refusing to sign the declaration is abominable. Nothing in the declaration "supports" homosexuality; it just protects human life.
So that's one disagreement, and one I can't be swayed on.
Another one, on which I'm open for discussion, is whether or not the church would have an easier time showing the love of Christ to homosexuals in daily life with a national policy of support vs. one of suppression. You think that the nation should repress their immorality, for your own reasons; I think that the nation should allow them individual freedoms, for the reason that it will be easier for the church to show them the gospel that way.
So, two disagreements. Did I do a fair job of summarizing them?
I have not personally read the full text of the declaration and so i am unable to comment on the declaration. I think a lot of us writing on the matter suffer from the same problem. Maybe all of us should read the full text in order to understand all its implications, both legal as well as theological. I'm pretty sure that the Church, with all the experts at the church's disposal, would have done so. The Church does not believe in the death penalty and has persistently stated so. @sirnickdon -
@sirnickdon - Okay so I had my comment all typed up and then lost it so I'm not going to retype it.
But I wanted to tell you that I don't think the writer of this post was relating this to the killing of homosexuals that you mention. I think she simply stated she had a problem with the "discriminatory" aspect of it.
And I can only tell you this from experience, sirnick...I love all regardless of sexual preference. I would invite a homosexual to my church just as I would someone who had murdered someone. Love should never discriminate with REGARDS TO LOVE. I don't have a problem with allowing homosexuals to come into my church. To me it 's no different than a couple not being married and having sex coming to church. It's still an ongoing sin. I personally believe everyone should answer for themselves in regards to sin and not "be a busybody in other men's affairs" but honestly, for other Christians at least, I feel their problem arises in someone calling themselves a Christian but a homosexual.
As I said, to me homosexuality is no worse than any other sin and I have no problem allowing them into the churches. To me, it's all the difference in how one, sadly, looks at a murdered versus a liar. We as humans simply see one as being worse, sadly, :)
And just for the record, while I am not Catholic, I do not believe in putting someone to death because of homosexuality, but I don't believe the writer was intending a post past anything more than the discriminatory aspect, unless I missed something. I don't think her statement that the other nations "have backed it" meant to suggest as related to the death issue.
@sirnickdon - I think the nations that discriminate against Homosexuality wouldn't welcome the Catholic Church because of their religion or ideology.
Would that make this discussion the end or would you still call the Catholic church abominable because you're supposedly not supporting gay rights?
We welcome groups to come to our church if they feel threatened or discriminated against but don't ask Christians to hang out a banner endorsing other people's behavior.
@Sosthenes - We welcome groups to come to our church if they feel threatened or discriminated against but don't ask Christians to hang out a banner endorsing other people's behavior
AMEN!!!