Thursday, 04 December 2008
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Advice Post: Coming Out To My Parents...As a Christian
We receive quite a few messages from people asking for help with certain issues, and often times, we're not sure how to relate or answer the person's question - which is where you guys come in! Every Thursday, we feature a reader's problem and leave it open for you guys to offer your two cents. Please feel free to message us for advice! It can be about anything from family, relationships, devotional life or struggles in faith. Don't worry, we'll keep you anonymous.
Today's advice post:
I was raised in an extremely traditional Buddhist family. I became a Christian about four months ago, but I still haven't worked up the courage to tell my parents because I think they would disown me. While I've never been as religious as them, I'm pretty sure they felt as if I were in the "safe zone" at least by not being a part of any other religion. I feel a little bit sneaking around like this. I go to church every Sunday, but my parents always figure I'm out with friends, so I've never had to explain myself. I've had to attend a few Buddhist rituals, but I normally just stand there while praying in my mind so that I'm still respectful to my parents.
I now feel the slight twinge of conviction for hiding. I think I should be brave, be honest, and be ready to deal with the consequences. Also, how will I share Christ with my parents if I keep my faith a secret? I know I have to do this, I just don't know how to bring it up and what I would do if my parents freaked out.
Any suggestions? Has anyone ever been in this situation before? Thanks!
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I feel like I could have written this post, except I was raised Jewish and recently I became a Christian. My situation is a little bit different though, because Christians have been responsible for the persecution of Jews in the past, so it would be a lot harder for my parents to accept me as a Christian than if I converted to some other religion. In my heart I still feel Jewish though, so it's complicated.
Part of me feels that my religious beliefs are none of my parents' business, but I know that it's important to be honest with them about something as important as this. For now I'm praying that they will see the outward difference that Christ has made in my life, and with time, perhaps I can let them know what He's done for me!
I was born a Catholic, and converted to another branch of Christianity. To tell my father, who truly believes that Catholicism is the ONLY true religion, was one of the hardest things that I have ever had to do.
Like others have said, the Lord says in His Word that "Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me." (Matthew 10:36-38). We are going to be persecuted for knowing the truth of Christ, but we must be obedient to Him.
Pray for God's Spirit to give you comfort and show you the ways in which to go. He will "NEVER leave you or forsake you".
May God's blessings be with you!
im so thankful that you have taken the steps to get to where you are and that you have found truth.
ive never been in this situation because i was raised in a christian home. the most i can offer you is a prayer.
God bless :)
Welcome to the family of god to belive in that true faith that's going to change you and mold in many way in days and maoth to come and it's not going to be a 'bed' of roses too.
Fatih in Christ is test thru time and many other factor in your groth in the Word of the Lord and the very people who brought Christ to you.
It takes courage and alot inner strgenth to continue beliving in that Love for god in Christ and christ in you as you walk the walk of faith in Him thru thick and thin.
I was in your she too when I was from an Hindu background and family.I accepted Christ when i was just turning 18 yrs and was at the cross road of wanting to know the thre and living god that of all the relogoin in the world today.
As i was convert in the beilef to Christ it changed many thing in my life and my very knowledge in Jesus grew week by week as attended every bible class and prayer meeting an all programme plan by the Church I was attending and it was also thru the members of the church who put in alot of effoet to see me growing in the Lord.
Just as you i had one major problem to break the news that I'm now a Christian and every Sunday with fail i when for service and to the youth meetings etc.Every one in the family was aksing thenself there is some kind of change and joy filling me and they were not able to pin point it.
It took some months before one day i told my grandmother that I'm attending Church and found that she is the one I can trust at that moment to relife that longing to share that joy within me without causing any uproar.
For your case it's how you take to yur family and how they can take it and your testimony plays a lot now as in my case it took some 2yrs for the whole family to accept my new found faith.but there was a price to pay as many of my relative till today until today after 33yrs still have not accepted me, consider a spoiled reject of the Clan., just for beliving in Christ.
There were but up's adn down's too along the this 33yrs of my life following Christ and there were time I just want to leave the Christian Faith as being just the only one and no one to encourage in your very own family, but all the prayer for the family mamaber to receive Crist just 5yrs back that one of my Aunt and her family accepted the Lord and we now encrouge oneother.
As for you pray and seek the Lord and feel the Holy Spirit working n and plan well who you can trsut to support your faith in Christ and the time and your foundation in Christ all plays an important role.
Pray for your family and let them see the change in you that 'glow' of Christ shining thu you in every thing yiou do.
In his name and Love Patrick Gunaselan
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إتفاق |
تاخر الحمل |