Tuesday, 29 July 2008

  • God Disciplines With The Flu? How 'Bout With Cancer?

    oaktree by revelife crew

    lightning2 Do you ever wonder if you're being punished by God when you're going through a tough time? Some people blow off the idea that God uses sicknesses and toil to punish us as "Christian Karma," others say those things are a byproduct of living in a fallen world, still others say that God straight out sends us those things to refine our character. 

    In our forum, mom4him addresses God's disciplinary methods in the thread, Punished By God? :

    I visited a new church today. During the sermon on the Lord's Supper (I Corinthians 11:17-34), the preacher said that God would make us sick to discipline us. He said he didn't think illness was always a punishment from God, but that He does use it to discipline us. Do you think God uses illness to punish us? Or do you think He punishes us at all? If so, how?

    Do you agree with the preacher? How would you answer mom4him?

Comments (46)

  • moritheil@xanga

    What we really have got to do is stop believing that the same thing has the same meaning in every different context.

  • haemina@xanga

    i don't believe that's a hardfast rule of God's.  sure, maybe he can and will, but not every person who is sick is getting disciplined by God.  sometimes, you just get germs!

  • lorelei@xanga

    I don't believe that god makes people sick, I believe that viruses and germs do. 

  • Pickwick12@xanga

    I have a chronic illness. I do believe God, like a gentle, loving father, has used it to correct me, but I don't feel punished at all. What He has corrected are my wrong beliefs that He is harsh and cold. My sickness has drawn me into His arms.

    I believe God uses everything in multiple ways. My sickness has accomplished many things in my life, and I do believe that part of the reason for it has been to correct my thinking. But that is more of a blessing than anything because I used to be so scared of God, and through my illness He has taught me to receive His love.

    I believe that all trials serve many purposes, one of which can be discipline. But that discipline is never meant to squash us; it's meant to draw us straight into the arms of God for comfort.

    I wouldn't trade my time of sickness for anything, whatever the right words for the reasons are. I just know it's helped me to find solace in the arms of my Father.

  • anonymous

    I don't think God uses sickness to "discipline" us. Sickness doesn't really strengthen our character much... at least not mine. I just lay in bed while the hubby fusses over me and brings me soup and gatorade and hot packs and painkillers. Of course, I've never been terminally ill, so I guess my strength has never truly been tested when it comes to sickness.


    Personally, I believe that sickness and disease are a biproduct of living in a fallen world.

  • leadworshipper82

    I can't accept the notion that He won't use sickness... He can use anything and everything under His Soveriegnty to grow us, refine us, prune us, discipline us and so on....


    the way I look at this is this...


    No matter what... the Sovereignty and the Glory of God is what motivates God to do things... which is also in line with His redemptive purposes... as well as being intimately involved in our lives...


    But sometimes... if His glory is at stake... He will allow the enemy to pull a Job on us... where if we feel a pinch... is it possible that you are in the middle of a test where the enemy is railing at God because you love Him only because of the stuff you have and the health you have... that i think is a big question... do we love God because we love God or do we love Him because of what He gives us and prospers us with?


    that was the test of Job... and I am not at all against the notion that God will allow the enemy to take things away from us and literally bring our world down around us to test our love for God... but in the end, when in the midst of pain and suffering we can still with honest hearts say, "I Don't know what's going on or why this is happening, but God, You are God and I love You and trust that You have a plan and a purpose in mind and that I only ask You would carry me through this blackened season."


    even when you few cancer this way... i think God shines brightest....


    John Piper said it this way... God is most glorified in you when you are most satisfied in Him in pain and loss, not prosperity... and I have to agree....


    and if anything... think on Psalm 73 to get you through whatever pinch you may be facing... it's something I'm dealing with and have been for the past few weeks... yet still with hope that the answer I'm hoping for is the one I'm hoping lines up with God...

  • Cygnus33@xanga

    I agree that sickness, disease, and pain of all kinds are a result of living in a fallen world...and that's it.  That God would cause a person to have cancer to punish them...?!  What a horrible thing to say! 

  • Pickwick12@xanga

    I think it's important to remember that there is a difference between punishment (I'm doing this to make you pay for what you did) and discipline (I love you so much that I'm correcting you). God doesn't punish His children, but He does discipline us. I believe He can use anything to correct us, even the bad choices of other people or the results of the fall in this world. 

  • SWAurora@xanga

    I don't believe God uses illness as a punishment. I believe God uses bad situations for his glory. What a terrible God would we serve, who gives hundreds and thousands of people illnesses every day? I would not be able to love God if I thought that was what he did. Yes, God can chastise us and rebuke us, but I don';t believe God gives us cancer or other illnesses because of a sin. God is in the business of forgiving sin remember?

  • anonymous

    That sounds a bit Old Testament to me...

  • Abbas_princess@xanga

    I do not believe He brings sickness to dicipline us.  I believe that he does allow it to mature us, teach us and draw us closer to himself. (See the book of Job.  Satan had to ask permission to inflict suffering onto Job.  It was Satan who did it, God who allowed it.  But there was a stipulation... Satan was not allowed to take his life.  I'd like to believe it is the same now.)


    That being said, I also believe the Bible when it says that the wages of sin is death.  I do not believe that in all cases death as a result of a disease like cancer for example is used as a punnishment (though my pastor has seen examples where, though he's said he can't be 100% sure, it certainly seemed to be) ... but that we live in a fallen world with sin, disease, sickness and death... which was not  His original design... and our fault: the wages of sin, indeed.

  • Abbas_princess@xanga
  • Abbas_princess@xanga

    @SWAurora@xanga - (this is said in an even voice, and with no mallice) Yes, he is in that business, but He is also perfectly just, and cannot, and will not go against His word.  He must dicipline us, and who are we to say how and when He does it?  We must pay the price for our sin.  How we react during whatever befalls us is what brings the glory back to Him.  Any miracles are, of course, to bring the Glory back.  Sometimes, our death will bring Him the glory, as we are perfectly healed, and hopefully, we walked our path with dignity and grace, showing others that He is our comfort and guide, and that no matter what, Your will be done, Lord.

  • saxy_grrl@xanga

    Your title is perfect. My cousin got cancer a few years ago. She and her family are very religious, so her attitude was that God gave her an obstacle to make her stronger and more faithful. Being an atheist at the time, I thought that seemed like a depressing, warped way of viewing her illness and her God. Now I know that it was my thinking that was twisted.


    My answer to your question is that I do not think that God punishes us until judgment day. The trials we face now may be because he wants to test our faith, or may be because we made decisions for ourselves rather than thinking about what God wants (straying from path = bad idea.) I prefer to see God as the loving Creator that he is, rather than a wrathful punisher.

  • lynardlynard@xanga

    Punishment is different than discipline. The scripture tells us that His children definitely are disciplined in this life. On the other hand, you can't look at every illness as discipline. Jesus told his disciples that when they asked whose sin made a man blind.

    Some verses about discipline:
    “ 'My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord,
    nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.' ...For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but
    later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have
    been trained by it." from Hebrews 12 and "Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge..." from Proverbs 12

    ||||||  lynard

  • anonymous

    God does NOT make people sick. He can't. It's impossible. The Bible clearly states that Satan has come to kill, steal, and destroy, but Jesus came to give life - life and sickness do not go together. Sickness is a sign of death and part of the curse - not a part of God's original plan or creation. God would not use a tool of his enemy against his own children, it is not in his nature. Jesus came and healed people, not made them sick to teach them something. If God used sickness to teach us, then Jesus would have had to also, and he didn't. He only used his healings to teach people.

  • rachelserine@xanga

    Our trials come from sin, flesh and the devil, right?  This is kind of like a conversation about possession and whether or not some awful thing or temptation is only and purely satanic/demonic in origin.
    I believe that usually it's some combination of the above three when we sin, have sickness, whatever.  I don't see God mentioned in those three. ;)  satan can use sin, he can use our flesh or we can just get sick or just sin from our sinful old nature.  And there are sometimes physical consequences for sin as well - those could be seen as punishment, but it's just consequences. :)  I don't think God will "cause" sickness or sinfulness in our life to "punish" us, but I do believe that He can and will use things like sickness and sin and spiritual battles to draw us into a closer relationship with Him and learn to rely on Him more fully. 
    My two cents...

  • Andrea_TheNerd@xanga

    If God is punishing people for their sins, doesn't that make Jesus' sacrifice on the cross moot?

  • leadworshipper82

    @Pickwick12@xanga - i think God does punish... i know this is OT... but it was God who sent Israel into exile as punishment for their blatant disregard for God's Laws and statutes... and God used the Babylonians as the tool for the punishment...


    @Andrea_TheNerd@xanga - i think there is a difference in the understanding that punishment apart from grace is not the same as discipline under grace... if we as a Christian sin, though we are still under the Cross of Christ, God the Father has every right to discipline our shortcomings as children under the holy and loving hand of our Heavenly father... it doesn't nullify the cross or make the cross moot, it amplifies the notion of God being Father more than it does nullify the cross...

  • Pickwick12@xanga

    @leadworshipper82 - I'm going off 1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. That verse certainly seems to indicate that we shouldn't fear punishment from God.

    It somewhat semantic, dealing with word usage, but I would argue that since Christ's death took care of the punishment for our sins, God doesn't have to punish His children. He disciplines us when we do wrong, but we don't have to pay for what we've done because Christ already did. The goal of punishment is payment; the goal of discipline is correction that leads to being more like Christ.

  • WasaiWarrior@xanga

    You cannot give credit to God for the good things in life without also giving him responsibility over the bad.  God is not sovereign unless he is somehow responsible for the suffering and pain and even sin that is inflicted on the world; not that God causes people to sin, but he most certainly permits it (which ultimately holds him responsible).

    The question is less about whether you think God allows these things as it is about whether God is actually good.  I think that's the real difficult struggling point; otherwise, we are left to believe that God wrestles with Satan, sin, and suffering as an equal rather than as a superior.

    The next question is that WHEN God inflicts suffering, is it necessarily always to punish for sin?  The biblical evidence is murky, but implies that it's not always the case.  Before Jesus healed a man born blind, his disciples asked, "Who sinned, this man or his parents that he was born blind?" to which Jesus replied, "Neither, but this was done so that you may see the glory of God."  But Jesus instructed the lame man by the fountain, "Stop sinning or else something worse may happen to you" (though this doesn't necessarily mean his initial deformity was caused by sin).  Hosea 6:1 says, "Come, let us return to the LORD. He has torn us to pieces but he will heal us; he has injured us but he will bind up our wounds."  Paul writes about how trials and tribulations refine us as gold in the fire.

    Suffering is a very complex and a cryptic thing throughout scripture, so we would be wise to avoid blanket characterizations about God's intent behind things that happen to us.. and I think it is rarely (if ever) our place to pronounce these things about other people.  All we know for certain is that every occasion for suffering can be used for transformation and "discipline", and we would do well to ask God what he wants us to do now that we have been torn to pieces. 

  • simplecandor@xanga

    i would say that there is a reason for what's happening whether a punishment or something deeper.


    in the reverse, i don't think wealth and fame are always rewards. so why should illnesses automatically be thought of as punishments?

  • sparda121@xanga

    He most definitely does not.

    John 10:10 "The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I
    am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more
    abundantly."

  • leadworshipper82

    @Pickwick12@xanga - not in the sense of justification... but then again... a punishment in the form of a spanking is punishment nonetheless i presume...


    i mean, being grounded is a form of punishment...


    i more or less won't discard the notion that God's Sovereign power would allow cancer to be designed to teach us a divine lesson... anything God utilizes teaches us lessons as well as test us...


    Job is the primary example for this idea...

  • moebetta4u@xanga

    God doesn't really "need" to discipline us becasue we do a much better job of screwing our own lives over. Sickness of the body deals with flesh; we counteract flesh with spirit. So one thing ailments of the flesh does do, is it connects us more with our spiritual source.


    It teaches us how 2 have peace when hell is breaking loose


    It teaches us how to have faith and hold on to God during a storm


    It STRENGTHENS our faith


    especially when we're in a sickness for the long haul- it produces patience


    Either way, I think with some diseases- we choose them...sometimes


    If you don't want AIDS stop screwing around


    If you don't want kidney failure- drink water


    But who am I, just a young girl with a lot 2 learn...

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