Wednesday, 16 July 2008

  • Beginning Homeschooling

    violet by mrs violet

    homeschool3 There is a growing awareness of homeschooling in the community at large.  While once upon a time it used to be largely a "Christian" domain, more and more people from all walks of life are jumping on the bandwagon.  Because of this growing trend, I've added a second part to the homeschooling series.

    Feel free to catch up with part one, "Why I Home School."

    A good place to start:  With your family

    Spend some time brainstorming about your goals, dreams, and vision for your family.  This is probably the easiest place to start and the most logical.  Who you are will shape what you do and how you do it.  Here are some buzz words that may help you work out what it is you want for your kids.  I am not saying you should want all of these things, rather I am hoping it helps you identify what's important to you as a family.

    * character * academics * sports* social justice * community service * talents * gifts* travel *mission trips/work* spiritual growth * ethics * morals* world views *learning styles *management styles* organized * eclectic * ordered *well disciplined *child driven * natural *unschooling *hands on * work books* passions * reading *simple * involved * teacher taught * self directed* society* life skills* work*

    How you react to some of those words, may be a good indication of how you could begin to home school, and how you homeschool should really be a reflection of your families personality.  The list is in no way exhaustive.

    With the State

    I think it is very wise to understand what the law requires/suggests/expects from you as a homeschooler.  This may also affect how you homeschool.

    Educational philosophy

    Don't you just love buzz words?  An educational philosophy is a fancy-schmancy way of saying how we think it should happen and how it is going to get done.  If you are anything like me, life is one big journey.  Things change all the time.  My educational philosophy has changed with the different seasons of our life.

    I have changed my approach many times during the past 9 years or so.  One of the hardest, yet most important things to do is to be really honest with yourself.  I would like to carry out a Classical curriculum with my children.  In reality though it is just not going to happen.  I don't have the energy or inclination to personally educate my children this way, yet I applaud those that do.  I am much more eclectic in my approach.  We do all kinds of curriculums and approaches, which is a better reflection of who I am.

    When I was pregnant, we reverted back to a more formal work book approach.  The reality is that I am very sick for 5 + months of a pregnancy and carry out most of our schooling between reeling on the lounge and running to the bathroom.

    Homeschool communities

    These communities are a great place to start.   I remember taking my children to homeschool gatherings long before they were school age.  At the time it felt a little odd, but looking back it was the best thing I could have done.   It was just terrific to sit and listen to women who were in it up to their elbows every day.  They patiently answered my questions, spoke to me about my fears and concerns and kindly allowed me to look at curriculum before I needed to start.

    It was great to see their children in action, to talk to them, watch them, make sure they weren't just two headed monsters able to spew out regurgitated facts and figures at the click of mommy's fingers, but rather were thoughtful and communicative.

    Online communities

    If you can't get to a homeschool group, or you don't feel ready or you just don't have any in your area, don't despair! There are email loops, forums, notice boards and online groups set up specifically to be support networks for those within the home school community.  You only need to Google it to see how many there are out there.

    Reading

    There are many, many books out there on homeschooling.  I recommend I Saw the Angel in the Marble by Chris and Ellyn Davis of the Elijah Company, as I found it most helpful to me.  

    Other authors that come to mind and that I have enjoyed are-John Holt, Raymond and Dorothy Moore, Teri Maxwell, Charlotte Mason (out of print books can be found online), Gladys Hunt, Tedd Tripp, and Susan Schaeffer Macaulay.

    Prayer

    Prayer, last but not least on this list, should be a top priority for Christian families contemplating homeschooling.  I cannot express to you enough how good God is at providing solutions that we have never thought of to our concerns. It also teaches us not to rely on our own understanding and wisdom but to seek His.


    What frightens or inspires you most about home schooling?

Comments (36)

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    I believe home schooling is a bad, because there are some things that home schooling does not teach the student. Also, by separating parental and teacher domains, there is a distinct line of authority and it allows the student to get away from the home and acclimate in an entire different environment.

  • gogreen3@xanga

    I saw a 16 year old graduate high school with his AA from the local community college.
    I've seen a LOT of kids graduate high school with their AA from the local college or at least some college under their belt.
    I myself was home schooled. I was probably the worst student my mom had but I'm still smarter then a lot of the public school kids.
    Some people say that home schooled people have poor social lives. This is false the majority of the time. It's just a different culture. In my experience home school kids tend to have less social inhibitions.

  • gogreen3@xanga

    Also many home schooled kids are part of groups. They often have many teachers, not just the parents. Some families do education shares, each mom or dad teaching in a field in which he or she is well versed. I don't know what the current laws are but when I was being home schooled we could join any public school sports team if we made the cut in tryouts. It allows kids to progress beyond their grade level without feeling out of place for doing so.

  • ChildofGod86@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga - To Eclipt. Strike., I'd venture to suggest that since there are some
    things that homeschooling doesn't teach, homeschooled people tend to do
    better at regular life beCAUSE they haven't been saturated with a lot
    of the junk others are forced to be subjected to.
    Children who are
    taught by their parents benefit from their parent's experience and in
    general, have a well developed ability to converse with people with
    varying ages easily and comfortably. They also benefit from this
    ability by learning from the experiences of others without needing to
    go through them themselves and possibly be very hurt in the process.
    This ability is very helpful in the long run as these homeschooled
    children grow up and enter the workforce. I am not saying that all
    homeschooled children have this gift, nor am I saying that all are bold
    and adventurous and start conversations at the drop of a hat.  I
    understand there are exceptions to everything.
    As far as the
    parent/ teacher domains, yes I do see your point, however with the
    freedom of homeschooling, a parent does have the chance to get their
    child in classes and things that help develop a teachable attitude and
    in your words "acclimate to a different learning environment." There
    are multitudes of activities, classes, camps, and the like that help
    develop children in ways often thought impossible.
    And as far as
    the entire "socialization thing" that's ridiculous! How many "misfit"
    public  or private schoolers are there anyway? The reason homeschoolers
    are picked out and paraded in this manner is only that there are so few
    people who participate in educating their children at home! There are
    far more people that have "slipped through the cracks" in the public
    school system than have ever been noticed by people as "evidence the
    homeschool movement does not work."
    As a former homeschooler, I can
    say the things I said. I can also tell you that college professors CAN
    tell if a person is homeschooled based on the quality of the person's
    work.

  • Karearea@xanga

    @ChildofGod86@xanga - Good point and reply.  I was homeschooled, and part of homeschool groups...when I went to a community college part time in my jr and senior years of high school, I had no problems with the environment or teacher.  After 2 years of being at a university, I haven't found that being homeschooled has inhibited my learning or ability to cope in different situations.

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    @ChildofGod86@xanga - And then we're talking about parental pressure with in response to school and education, in that case, does any other country home school? Professors can also tell if a student is from another country due to their study habits because of the culture. If you take away the social sphere of school, you take so much else away as well.

    Yes, they are saturated with all this other junk, but isn't it up to them how much they soak it up and what they reject?

  • ChildofGod86@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga - Possibly, but why do it? Why expose them to this world's trash? It's not profitable to any and frankly, doesn't even need to be there in the first place.

    To me it seems as though you're saying that children need to learn how to learn from someone who is not their parent. Homeschooled children do.

    And children soak up everything. They aren't capable of discerning what is right and good when they are so young. Who besides the child's parents are better able to decide what's good and noble and true?

    Anyone who'd want to homeschool their children and deal with all the trouble of doing so would not be someone who ignored and mistreated their children. The focus is way too concentrated on them.

  • ChildofGod86@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga - I meant as far as professors and such, they notice based on their ability to carry a conversation with them and based on their work.

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    @ChildofGod86@xanga - I would believe that to truly understand the world we live in, you must travel. By simply staying at home, there is only a narrow perspective of what there is out there.

  • rachelserine@xanga

    as a homeschooled kid/future homeschool mom i enjoyed your tips!  I love how each successful homeschool that I have been a part of (my own family, my homeschool group's kids and the families of kids that I have tutored)are each unique and different, tailored to the children's abilities and weaknesses.  The most successful homeschools I have seen have involved society and culture and have not sheltered the children involved.  The children then become easily acclimated to spending time with adults and tend to show a truer and faster maturity and level of thinking, but are also exposed to the realities of their own peers and can more easily compare the completely different "realities."  It is much more balanced. 
    I also have to say that The Writing Road to Reading program by Romalda Spaulding (simplified by Jay W. Patterson in Reading Works) is a superb reading/phonics program.  It's a sister program to the one they use for reading challenged children at the Mayo Clinic and I've seen troubled kids change 2 grade levels in months using this approach.  It's easy to teach and brings confidence and security to kids who struggle.  Any child or adult would benefit from it. :)

  • la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga

    I think that homeschooling is great, as long as you give your children the opportunity to excel (college courses or APs get a jumpstart if they're planning to attend a four-year college, which, trust me, is ALWAYS appreciated)
    I would generally recommend public schooling at least for the last two years, though.

  • ChildofGod86@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga - What I'm saying is, that children do get that perspective, when they are ready and not before.

  • Bella_Mabel@xanga

    for god's sake, if you're so uptight about how immoral or terrible public school is, then just take your kid to private so you'll attempt and feel as if you accomplished giving your kid a better education. Honestly I just see it as locking kids in a house all day to learn from an answer key, instead of actually interacting with a teacher. It also blurs the line between parent/teacher, I never took my mom seriously because well...hell, she's my mom. I never saw her as an actual teacher.
    Really, though, I homeschooled, and it was just downright terrible, no doubt about it. If you want your kid to have a more rounded education, teach them your morals and values while at home. What's so terrible about sending them to a building with trained professionals to learn with people in their same age group? Is it honestly so bad you're willing to deny them an experience that honestly everyone deserves? They have to go into schools half of the time anyways to take mandatory state exams to make sure they're up to state level, or that basically the parents aren't doing what they usually do, which is fucking up.

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga -  Why, would you recommend 2 years in public school?

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @Bella_Mabel@xanga -  I am sorry to say your experience is based on your parents roles or lack of. It is not about locking them away or any of the other things you said. I went to Public School  &  No one gains anything from there other than what to forget.
    I am sorry you didn't have a good time, again your experience is not the norm.

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga -  your statement has no factual understanding. Please educate yourself before deciding on what you think or share with others . I believe this post was meant to inform & encourage those already Homeschooling or soon will, not an opinion poll.

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    @Made2sing4Jesus@xanga - If you are an authority on the subject, please provide some insight.

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    Great Post! It is not easy to Home School, most of us need Encouragements. I saw that a few people here fail to realize how parents who home school make sure there lives are varied & educational, full of interactions with all kinds of people and cultures. And that Home Schooling is not about hiding. My children know how to interact with people of all ages & cultures unlike their public school peers who can only relate with people around their age.

    Did you Know that Colleges come to the Homeschoolers seeking out students for their schools?

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga - My last comment before this should shed some light,I also posted on it today to some degree. I wrote it not as a conventional argument for Homeschooling but as a reference tool based on my experience.

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    @Made2sing4Jesus@xanga - Is that not based on opinion as well?

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga -  No I do not consider 12 years of being in this field an opinion, as in all things peoples experiences become the facts after awhile.

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    @Made2sing4Jesus@xanga - Well, if it that is the case. I will also share my experiences. I know a few home schoolers for a number of years now and it seems that what you say is the exception. Many of them are unable to socialize outside their inner circle of friends and had a lot of troubling "fitting in" for whatever reason.

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga - fitting in is a social problem, but not based on home schooling. Think upon the people that have not fit in at public school & gone on to shoot their fellows peers, for whom were suppose to teach them social skill. There are simply people who cannot fit in well, that argument has no baring. 

  • EclipticStrike@xanga

    @Made2sing4Jesus@xanga - Yet, you said it yourself that home schooled students are able to effectively interact with anyone?

  • Made2sing4Jesus@xanga

    @EclipticStrike@xanga -  It would be ridiculous to Include absolutely everyone. The "some or most" is understood in most discussions, as is the understood "you" in Grammar.

    The children you are referring to may already had social issues & they would not have changed "most" likely even if they had gone to public. And you, not knowing that the parents, knowing their kids foresaw that public school would have made it worse.

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