Monday, 14 July 2008

  • The Necessity of Mentoring and Being Mentored

    violet by mrs violet

    multi3I belong to a "sisterhood of the travelling pants." ... okay not quite, but it was a catchy title anyway.

    It has some merit: I am a woman (therefore a sister in the Lord) and I have many pairs of pants that are traveling with me at the moment.

    It's a corny introduction, I know, but it did get me thinking about mentoring as I travel about.

    I was fortunate that while raising my babies, I had some very godly women around me, who took what we often call the "Titus 2 mandate" very seriously.  They were a great source of knowledge on all things 'baby'.  They were caring, quick to pray and loving in their approach.  Several of them I would equate to being a spiritual mother - exhorting, encouraging and even gently correcting my biblical perspective.

    I was thinking the other day about how successfully I was "physically" fulfilling this mandate.  And to be completely honest, at the moment, I am not doing a good job.  I have always tried to maintain a three-tier approach to mentoring.  To always have a woman in front of me, and one coming up behind me.  So one who helps me along my way, and one who I am encouraging.

    I am going to try and go a little easy on myself given I have just moved countries, but still the nagging thought remains: who is exhorting me and who am I exhorting?

    Have you had any positive experiences where someone older or younger than you has been a blessing in sharing with you the things of the Lord?

Comments (6)

  • haemina@xanga

    this has been on my mind a lot these days.  i don't really have someone exhorting me, although i would like to.  i have someone coming up behind me, but i know i could do better in encouraging/praying for her.

  • Erin1022@xanga

    Such a good post!  I have been blessed to have several mentors during different points in my life, but 2 have been most influential in my spiritual and personal development.  My former pastor's wife took me under her wing when I went off to college, and we exchanged many, many emails and she would meet with me when I was on breaks.  She really helped me "survive" that first semester of college.  I also had a mentor later on in college, a woman a few years older than me, who would meet with me and really challenge me in my walk.  (Are you reading the Bible?  Are you journaling?  Are you thanking Him daily?  Are you encouraging others?) She truly modeled the Christian walk for me, and I am so grateful for that.

    Right now I'm mentoring a young college student, and it's been such a joy.  I hope to continue doing so, and I also would love to continue to be mentored by someone older than me, as I'm still learning a lot about what it means to live my faith.

  • kim@xanga

    I would really like a mentor again. I miss mine. I do mentor a few people unofficially, though. We are good friends - I suppose we are more accountability partners though.

  • auralay_ariemay@xanga

    I had an amazing mentor through middle and high school, my student minister's wife. She was about 10 years older, but her wisdom and poise were infinitely beyond that and exactly the kind of spiritual influence I needed to compliment my wonderful mother and other influential women in my life. Now, 8 years later, I'm a student minister in the same church, and I'm working with several young ladies who need me in addition to the other godly women in their lives. I feel like I get to be the silly, personable "aunt" since the age-range isn't nearly that of a mother to a daughter. It's beautiful.


    It also makes me so thankful for everything my mentor did for me -- who knew it would be so tough sometimes?! God is certainly good to keep His kingdom ever in motion, and awfully kind to include anyone willing, even an absent-minded college girl like me, in on His divine work!

  • leadworshipper82

    i wouldn't say i'm being mentored in a sense... i was before this one brother i loved moved to maryland from MI... i grew alot through him...


    needless to say there really isn't anyone else around or near me that can do what he did... so i guess i missed meeting up with him at Starbucks to have mentoring sessions...


    i don't mentor per se because i'm a youth leader on volunteering basis so i don't have the funds to be able to mentor the way it should be done.... but more or less... God calls us to mentor and be mentored... it's about accountability and it's about growth...

  • ChildofGod86@xanga

    Some of the most important things are said not by pastors or parents, but mentors. I think mentors sometimes have the unique capability to get deep with someone and really focus them on Christ.

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