Tuesday, 08 July 2008
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What I Learned Through Atheists and Agnostics
During college, I struggled a lot with faith and God and the purpose of it all. I'll admit, I slipped a few times, got selfish and did things to please myself, and not God. Thankfully, I eventually snapped back; however, when conversing with atheists, agnostics, and other people who just didn't care to hear about Jesus, I realized how important it is to really be rooted in the Word and to know the historical context of the Bible. People will try to blast the credibility without knowing the truth behind it and when I didn't know the truth either. I didn't know what to say to them when they tried to discredit the Bible. It was tough.Another thing I learned is that Christians have received a bad reputation because people expect them to be perfect and to live holy lives because of what they preach. The problem is that we never claimed to be perfect and above everyone else (at least I hope we didn't.) I firmly believe that as a Christian, I believe in Jesus Christ as my Savior, nothing less. Though Christ, I'm saved from an eternity without Him. People just don't understand that and think that I believe in Jesus because it's a crutch for a reality that i can't handle. That couldn't be further from the truth. It takes so much more faith to believe in something bigger than ourselves rather than to think we are the center of the universe. I don't understand how people can be comfortable with living this life, dying, and that being the end. I think humans are too precious to end up decaying bodies in the ground. then there's the whole thing with our souls.
More about the afterlife - I've concluded that God does not send people to hell for not believing in Him or for any other reason. God doesn't send people to hell at all. Rather, people go one of either two ways - heaven or hell. Hell is simply the place that is absent of God, void of God and all His goodness. I don't believe that God desires anyone to be there or punishes anyone for not believing in Him. I believe that we are given free will to choose our path and the path that leads to hell is the life that we've chosen to walk away from Him, to be void of Him in our lives.
I think about law school a lot because time seems to be going a lot quicker than I had anticipated and before I know it, it'll be the first day of school. there aren't many Christian lawyers, and I know that God has called me to this field for a purpose. Whatever that purpose is, I'm waiting and I've realized that I will only make it out of law school with God walking me through it day by day
Have you ever gotten into a debate about Christianity with an atheist or an agnostic? Did you feel prepared to back your case or did you think you needed to brush up on your knowledge?
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@shedinator@xanga - "Once you go back to the beginning, Evolution takes equally as much faith as any form of Religion."
Nope. Sorry. Not only does evolution make much more sense than any kind of religion, but also, there are religions that claim absolutely unbelievable things. Having one creator (God) isn't too outlandish, but saying that an invisible pink unicorn gathered his band of green Martians and created life? Sorry, I can't follow.
And Paige has previously accused me of completely inventing things, completely ignoring logic, reason, and reality, and of outright lying [in case you haven't noticed, logic is the one thing I would never ignore - her accusations were completely unfounded]. She often resorts to personal attacks, and I wouldn't take anything she says seriously. You can form your own opinions as you read her comments around xanga/revelife. I just thought I'd give you fair warning.
@Issie - Take a course in evolutionary biology, then get back to me on the evolution-creation debate. No offense, but you're ignorant on the field and how it has revolutionized all biologically-related scientific thought (and how it has been refined) since the days of Darwin. You're entitled to your opinion, but I don't think it means much until you become educated. (Of course, this may not be a very important issue, in which case, I can understand your desire to do other things with your time.)
@la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - I believe (actually I know because I scrolled up and re-read) that I provided for the possibility that your standards were as such. I think the biggest question when one has attainable standards is "what next." You talk of gaining knowledge, clearly it is impossible for a man or woman to have all knowledge. you speak of integrity, but opportunities to forefeit that integrity are constant, and therefore it is retested. I think when most Christians speak of standards, we speak in terms of a goal, while you are using it more as a measurement. We ask "Can I maintain my integrity from now until time indefinite?" You see whether you have maintained it so far. I could be wrong on the you side of things, but it seems to me that based on the things you hold yourself to, you too are destined to fail at times. Honesty, kindness, and hard work jump out to me as things that are not given 100% of the time. In my belief system- that is to say the Biblical Christian worldview- if you ever lied to your parents when you were 7, decided to "mail it in" at work one day, or were less than kind to someone, you have already fallen short of your standards. If we were to compare those standards to the Christian standard known as "the law" (not US law... Levitical Law), you are equal to us. Paul says "Any man who keeps the whole law but stumbles at one point is guilty of breaking all of it." Using that theology, and combining it with your standards, the fact that I hit my brother several times between the ages of 6 and... I don't remember how old... makes me guilty of falling short.
Sorry if this is a ramble but, let me simplify: I haven't broken any talmudic laws today that I know of.... actually, reading my above post I said 3 months when it's actually 9, darn my typing... but that doesn't mean that I have gone my entire life thus far and will go the rest of my life hence without ever breaking that law. do you see what I;m saying?
@la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - I try not to formulate opinions about people- I don't like being surprised when they don't match up. I'm not aware of Pink Unicornianism, but my point was the beginning is rather hazy. I've had a chance to talk with some of the greater scientific minds- at least, a professor or two with a fancy pants degree in the field- a luxury I've had because I am not the abrasive shout the other side down type, and generally, their responses line up pretty well with one another. It is fairly well agreed that 1) Our theories on the beginning of the universe/origin of life are indeed speculation. 2)Odds are the beginning of this universe was not the true beginning, and 3) it is not necessary to know of the true beginning. In fact, the existence of a true beginning is not even necessary.
The origin of life via soup is predated by the big bang, which is predated by "something else"-I am not mocking, this is one topic that is highly up for debate right now. The origin of life via Creation is predated by the Creator, who has no beginning or origin. Both of these ideas require a belief in some force or process that is quite literally undiscernable. It is very true that Christianity and Atheism/Evolution/Big Bang are on equal footing when it comes to "how it all began," and so long as that's the case, why not toss in a unicorn, a spaghetti monster, or whatever you want to. To use an argument from one of the most recognized Evolutionists- Richard Dawkins- when it comes to figuring out how it all began, you can't know, so one belief is as valid as the next.
If we then take our separate beliefs and continue on to explain the entire world based on them, everything falls rather neatly in to place for all of us. Honestly, I don't understand why Atheists try to sway Christians or any other religious individual. If you're right, and all that we have after this is to go on the cosmic compost heap, then it really doesn't matter if I believe in a non-existent Supreme Being. On the other hand, If I'm right, and after this is Heaven for me and Hell for you, you have everything to lose and I would be downright selfish if I didn't want to share that with you.
@la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - I had no interest in addressing you or the debates you are involved in at all. I was addressing John and I believe he was much more courteous in his response. I have not insulted your education or you for that matter based on what I read, so do hold back on your insults of me until I invite you to. It is not exactly educated nor logical to insult someone as 'uneducated' just because they disagree with you. And I still have no interest in "getting back to you".
@shedinator@xanga - ok next time, for those who like to read into things, i will write a long list of those things not mentioned and not inferred in any way. Just in case someone's aunt Sally once said much more that I ever did.
Sorry about calling you a girl
my background leans towards contracts. A world were one does not infer into written words things that are not stated. I believe a Hermeneutics class would teach a similar way of interpreting the written world. But then I just did it by calling you a girl, when nowhere could I have been able to know that, by what you wrote.
my sister is agnostic. we're always arguing about God. she isn't a true agnostic. she believes in God and admits he exists, but she thinks that she can keep intentionally going against Him and He'll forgive her in the end because she admits that He is real.
@trunthepaige@xanga - Actually, a Hermeneutics class teaches you to try and discern what the original author meant, i.e. to draw conclusions based not only on the written text, but the situation it was written in, the culture of the time, etc. A literalistic approach to reading- one in which every word is taken at face value- does not require a class. And I think you're missing the fact that it's not just a random Aunt Sally. Most Non-Christians who read that statement would take it exactly the same way Faerie did, and the simplest thing to do would have been to apologise for how she took it and explain what you meant- something you still have not done. When the word "you" is placed in the text as it was in your post, it is generally considered to be directed either at a specific person, in which case I would have to wonder who because no previous poster had claimed the views you were discussing, or it is a generalized "you" implying anyone who falls in to the category that is being addressed which, in this case, was those who do not have Christian Standards.
i like this post makes me think about what it really means to view relationship with God over religion...i think society has overly processed religion especially Christianity to the point where it has to be shoved down people's throats...God doesn't shove himself down anyone's throat he just gives you a choice...and its this choice that you end up living with, but with God the cool thing is he always gives u an opportunity to change your mind....but once again...as stated in the word ima paraphrase it tho..that God knocks on the heart of each person...
I definitely need to brush up on my knowledge.
But I think part of the reason people have a problem with the Bible is because they hear about it or take it in bits & pieces. They lose the context (historical, literary, chronological) so the words and real meanings behind the words become twisted in their minds.
@cpacaide@xanga - I can agree somewhat with that, but I think the main problem people have, or at least the main problem I have, is the manner in which it is presented, not in the content.
@Kinszilla@xanga - Fair enough. Any time someone sticks anything down a person's throat--it's enough to make that said person throw up. But then that would be the presenter's fault. I would think that that "Christian" would've realized that s/he was called to be a loving witness, not someone meant to scare the living daylights of everybody, *forcing* others to believe what they're not ready for.
@shedinator@xanga - "discern what the original author meant"
Yep I understand that very well, but you are having issue with it. What you never do is make up intent by what the author did not say, or infer. What you are doing with my words is called deconstructionism. You interpretation of scripture, I am sure leans towards the creative. If you do things in the same manner, as when you read my two clearly worded sentences.
Your pride and stubbornness are duly noted.
@trunthepaige@xanga - yes, I'm darn stubborn. As are you, otherwise this discussion would not have continued. At no point have I "Made up intent." Every single time, I've explained why, grammatically, situationally, and tonally, faerie took offense to your initial statement. I'm very familiar with deconstructionism, and no, I did not apply it to your words.
"Yes we are called hypocrites because we have standards that we fail to meet. It is much easer not to have any standards at all.Or at least no standards that you will admit to. Then you can not be called a hypocrite."
Reading this as straightforward, you have said "we" and "you." Any time these words are used, it implies two separate people or groups of people. Think about it. "we'll go this way, you go that way." "We will meet you there." "We would like to remind you." It is a plural self, plural other separation. The "we" in the first sentence is clearly meaning Christians. It is not difficult to see why someone would assume that since "we" is Christians, that "you" is non-Christians, which is exactly what Faerie did.
A biblical example would be Joshua 24:15. Joshua said "Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve... as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." It stands to reason that the "You" Joshua was addressing were those who did not belong to his house and was therefore not a part of the "we." This is not deconstructionism, this is 6th grade grammar.
And I'm not showing any pride in this, I am trying to help you not get attacked, help which you have despised and virtually spat on. What ever happened to speck and plank, turning the other cheek, embracing reproof, and all those other lovely Christian virtues?
@Issie - I'm sorry I have apparently offended you. You did yourself admit that you have no intimate knowledge of evolutionary theory, and I hope you'll excuse me if I believe that that's kind of a prerequisite to saying it's untrue.
@shedinator@xanga - Oh please you have lost it, you means atheists. Of course if you used just my words and not your imagination "you" is clearly referring to the previous sentence. As in those with no standards. you labeled them i did not
@trunthepaige@xanga - You labeled them by using the word "you."
there is a simple rewrite of this entire phrase:
"Yes Christians are called hypocrites because we have standards that we fail to meet. It is much easer not to have any standards at all.Or at least not to admit to having standards. People who don't admit their standards can not be called hypocrites."
If I've gathered correctly, that is the thought that you were trying to get across. But in this case, no one is going to automatically associate the group of people with non-christians, because it is a self-enclosed sentence.
I presented the initial statement, and my revised one to every active person on my buddy list and asked who the "You" in the first one referred to, and who the "People" in the second one were.
Across the board, they said the first one was non-christians, and the second was people who do not have standards. @la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - read the revised statement and tell me whether you still would have been offended.
"Another thing I learned is that Christians have received a bad reputation because people expect them to be perfect and to live holy lives because of what they preach. The problem is that we never claimed to be perfect and above everyone else (at least I hope we didn't.) I firmly believe that as a Christian, I believe in Jesus Christ as my Savior, nothing less. Though Christ, I'm saved from an eternity without Him. People just don't understand that and think that I believe in Jesus because it's a crutch for a reality that i can't handle. That couldn't be further from the truth. It takes so much more faith to believe in something bigger than ourselves rather than to think we are the center of the universe. I don't understand how people can be comfortable with living this life, dying, and that being the end. I think humans are too precious to end up decaying bodies in the ground. then there's the whole thing with our souls."
^ I liked that a lot, it lines up very well with what I believe to be true...and it is unfortunate that people expect Christians to be perfect. I'm not gonna lie, before I turned more to my faith even I held that notion to some extent...needless to say, in my own experience and in seeing others, I've since been corrected.
Have you ever gotten into a debate about Christianity with an
atheist or an agnostic? Did you feel prepared to back your case or did
you think you needed to brush up on your knowledge?
I've gotten into arguments/discussions with atheists and agnostics many a time. One of the first things I learned was that being sure of something, and being able to articulate why I'm sure of it, are very different things.
i try to avoid them. once a kid at school thought he convinced me out of christianity and proved that God didnt exist by talking about it for an hr. it gave me a headache.
@john@xanga - I REALLY like what you said here.
As a Christian I would agree with you.
While I actually like debate and find it a lot of fun for the most part, NO BODY can convince anybody of Jesus, it is a personal revelation. People can be well educated in 'facts' but at the end of the day, there needs to be something happen on a 'Spiritual' level not just a head-heart level.
As a home schooler I will teach creation and evolution.
I definitely agree with your sentiments. I've often gotten into debates about religion, and often found that the same thing holds true --- we're expected to be perfect, but I think when we show a genuine faith and dedication to what we preach, others see it and understand.
Thanks for this. :D
I recently went from dating someone who is a devout Christian to a non-believer. I keep hearing about how I am "brainwashed" as if I was forced to think the way I do about my faith and God. I explained how it is not that I am forced to believe, I find comfort in my beliefs and therefore I hold onto them dearly.
Do you hear that you are brainwashed too? I see it as people think if they give up control of their own path that we must be crazy to lose that control. As if someone put a gun to our heads and said we MUST BELIEVE!
@shedinator@xanga - Yes, simply the "people who don't admit their standards" is much more accurate. Thank you.