Monday, 16 June 2008

  • A Stranger's Kindness

    from xinwei1711

    carscratch On the way home with two friends, Jon and Summer, I had to reverse my car out of a very crammed parking space. I reversed very VERY slowly while looking at my rear mirror and keeping an eye on the cars parked on both sides.

    Not until my car stopped moving did I realize that I'd already hit the car double parked behind me. When i saw that the OWNER of the car was there, I panicked. My mind went blank and I didn't kow what to do. Jon quickly went out of the car, checked out the damage, and talked to the owner.

    Man, I just sat there while feeling scared.

    I made myself get out of the car and face the consequences. I tried to be calm, but I just kept saying sorry countless times to the man while avoiding eye contact. I felt so, so, so, SO bad. I wished I could just bury myself into a hole.

    The man asked me how it'd happened. I gave a simple "Dunno," while thinking, "I'm the one who's supposed to ask questions, just tell me how much I'm supposed to pay." I kept looking at the scratch my car made on his car. It wasn't a big one, but it wasn't small either.

    Thank God my friends were there to help me talk. I'd feel so awkward without them. Summer was even called her dad and brother to ask them what we should do.

    Finally, the man said, "It wouldn't be fair to make you pay for the whole paint job cuz it'll cost around RM300 ($92) even though the scratch isn't that big." RM300?!

    "I'll tell you what," he continued, "Why not just pay me for a car wash, RM10 ($3)."

    I could hardly believe my ears. RM10? For that not-so-small scratch?

    I asked him, "Really?"

    "I'm sure."

    Oh my gosh, he was so nice!!! I calmly and quickly went to my car and paid him RM10. He told me to be more careful next time, I apologized to him a few times again and then went off.

    When I U-turned, I saw a girl lecturing the man and pointing at the car's scratch at the same time. Jon said she must be his girlfriend.

    Man, I felt really guilty. I should have offered to pay more. God bless you, wherever you are now, for being SO kind.

    After dropping off my friends, I just broke down and poured my heart out to God. I felt undeserving of that kindness for my mistake, but at the same time, overwhelmingly grateful for it.

    When I stopped at a red light, I noticed the bumper sticker of the car in front of me:

    "There is no other force in this world that is greater than GOD'S POWER."

    I couldn't help but smile at the comfort of God's control over everything.

    Where has God shown you grace lately?

     

Comments (7)

  • shrek_azn@xanga

    Amen, thanks for sharing the story.

    God bless me with Fiona ... :)

  • Catholicforlife

    wow, idont think i have ever encountered a person with that degree of good faith.  My friend once told me that people are not as mean as i think; maybe its true, it was in your case for sure.  I'm glad to know there are still nice people in this world, i refuse to believe we're a dying breed.

  • aboutsophia@xanga

    Wow, that's very nice of that man really. 

  • beckylou_who

    I was late getting home after a choir rehearsal one night because two of my friends needed a ride home, and since I forgot to call home my dad went out looking for me.

    I felt REALLY awful, and he was really mad that night. He said I was grounded, but he hasn't been the least bit angry with me or been harsh with punishments. I'm really grateful, because I hadn't seen my boyfriend in two weeks and we got to hang out. I missed him a lot.

  • amavel_melle@xanga

    RM as in the malaysian currency?
    or am i on drugs?

  • razzlebash@xanga

    it's great that you got a break. God does look out for us.

  • lesingebizarre@xanga

    I had almost the same sort of thing happen to me the other day. The lady I rearended asked the police not to write up a crash report so I didn't have to pay a ticket. She even had her kid in the car at the time - I'm not sure I would have been so forgiving in her position.


    When I thanked her, she just shrugged and said, "hey, karma."


    I figured she can call it what she wants, it's grace.

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