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Thursday, 18 March 2010

  • Inter-Church Dating: Are the People at Church Off-Limits?

    A few years ago, I attended an uber-conservative Pentecostal church and -- along with girls wearing long skirts, no earrings, and not cutting their hair -- my pastor's wife suggested that I not date anyone that I go to church with. At first, I thought that it was a counter-productive idea because wasn't the ideal for two Christians to meet in church and fall in love? Of course, she assured me that I certainly wouldn't want to date someone who wasn't a Christian. She was very sincere in her advice about dating someone outside of my church. I loved my pastor's wife and even after all these years, I still do. I finally realized what she meant by instructing me not to date within my church. She didn't want me to date someone in the same church I was attending in the tragedy that the relationship failed. If so, I would be tempted to change churches, leave my pastor, and all my church family just because a relationship didn't work out. Also, when dating someone within the church, you open yourself up to all sorts of scrutiny, over-attention to your private life, and unsolicited advice from church folk.

    Would you ever date someone in your church? Have you ever dated someone in your church and it went wonderfully right or terribly wrong?

  • If You Could Ask God One Question, What Would It Be?

    Have a question you want us to ask?  Send it to us!

    We won't stand before the throne of God until we leave this earth, but we all probably have questions we wish God would answer.  There are many things in this world that don't make sense, try as we may to come to terms with them.  But wouldn't it be nice if we could just get the answer?  Limiting it to one question, what would you ask God if you could ask Him anything? 

    If you could ask God one question, what would it be?
  • When Is Church not "Church?"

    What makes church "church?"

    What is the one thing a church has to have in order for that hour on Sunday to be "church?"

    Honestly, as a pastor, I don't think I really know anymore.

    What Makes It "Church?"

    Is it Communion?
    Most of our churches follow the same format on Sundays.  They are, despite some bells and whistles, the same basic formula.  There's some singing, a sermon, some announcements, and an offering taken up.  And if we're feeling really holy, we squeeze in Communion.  Some churches make a big production out of Communion.  Some churches seem like it's just the one day they allow snacks in the sanctuary.

    Is it the sermon?
    My Baptist preaching professor loved to wax poetic about the "supremacy" of preaching.  More Here...
  • God's Judgment: He Will Get It Right

    By Clayton King

    “Let the rivers clap their hands, let the mountains shout together for joy before the LORD, for He is coming to judge the earth.  He will judge the world righteously and the peoples fairly.” Psalm 98:8-9

    What strikes me about this passage is this: God’s coming judgment, which often times causes us to fear and recoil, should actually bring joy and hope.  Here, nature is personified.  It claps and shouts!  Like Jesus, Who said that the rocks and trees would cry out if we failed to worship, the trees and mountains (creation) erupt in worship at the very THOUGHT that God is coming…to make all things right and good and restored….and if nature yearns for Him, how much more should WE, His blood-bought children, yearn for Him?

    If the thought of God’s judgment brings great fear to your heart, perhaps it’s because of one of the following reasons:

    1.  You have never repented of your sin and the sin within you must either be pardoned or punished.  So you fear God’s judgment upon you and your sin, and rightly so.  The answer is to repent and believe in Christ for the pardon of your sin.

    More Here...
  • What Does God Want From Us?

    "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."
      -- Matthew 5:48, NIV

    I suppose if anyone could get an award for doing or having absolutely everything in place or coming close to achieving Jesus' command to "be perfect", the Jewish Pharisees would run away with the prize. In fact, one could almost visualize the surprised and startled expressions on the disciples' faces when Jesus announced; "Unless you do far better than the Pharisees in the matters of right living, you won't know the first thing about entering the kingdom" (Matthew 5:20 [MSG]). How in the world could Jesus say that? Didn't He realize that they had "right living" down to an exact science? Surely He must have been mistaken!

    But later on He made it very clear that there was much more involved in becoming "like their Father in heaven". He said to the Pharisees & scribes; "You give God a tenth of the spices from your garden, such as mint, dill, and cumin. Yet you neglect the more important matters of the Law, such as justice, mercy, and faithfulness. These are the important things you should have done, though you should not have left the others undone either ... You wash the outside of your cups and dishes, while inside there is nothing but greed and selfishness ... You blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of a cup, and then the outside will also be clean ... Outside you look good, but inside you are evil and only pretend to be good" (Matthew 23:23-28 [CEV]).

    "These people make a big show of saying the right thing, but their heart isn't in it ('Their hearts are far from me' [NIV]). They act like they're worshiping me, but they don't mean it" (Matthew 15:7-9 [MSG]).

    So just what is it God wants from us, anyway? More Here...

  • Sins of the Mind: Sometimes the Worst Enemies Come From Within

    Forget plagues, droughts, faminine, wars, enemies, and every other threat to your physical person. The things that pose the most serious threats to our survival come from within. I'll be bold and suggest that self-sabotage, guilt, shame, un-forgiveness, anger and anxiety as some of the few worst enemies that someone can impose on oneself. Are you familiar with any of these weapons of mass destruction that linger behind our greatest enemies lines? I am. They have all eaten more of my life than I care to admit. I shouldn't have been nearly as concerned with threats from the outside world. I should have directed more concern for the civil war that was waged within myself. I venture to say that the reason why most people are depressed is because they really can't stand to be around themselves. When our internal environment is stable, what's happening outside of us takes on less importance.

    I was riding on top of a very high horse a few months ago. And as a result, I had a very low fall to the ground where I belonged. As my friend Ross says in jest, "Having your helping to that humble pie?" In this scenario, I would say "Yes, Ross, I'll have seconds and thirds!" Not until I fell did I realize exactly how high I had esteemed myself. And when I fell to the ground and my clothes got soiled and reality slapped me in the face, I had the audacity to ask: "Why me God?" He wasn't so swift in answering but in hindsight, I believe that was for my best. He's given me time to figure out the answer myself by reading His world and spending quiet time with Him at the top of the morning.

    The other day, I stumbled upon the oft quoted verse in Proverbs 16: 17, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." When I have heard this verse, it has always been misquoted. More Here...

Wednesday, 17 March 2010

  • Johnny Cash: Hope Was His Last Act of Defiance

    By Justin at Faith and Geekery

    Johnny Cash has a new CD in stores. (Yes, he died over six years ago. No, that has not stopped other musicians in the past.) The Onion’s AV Club has a review, and if you want to sample the album before picking it up, you can hear the whole thing thanks to lala.com.

    I took a listen, and here’s my take.

    In this set of songs we hear a man in his 70s, and with pain of losing his wife very fresh in his life, he sounds quite frail. There’s a lot of talk about death on this album; it’s a topic that had obviously been creeping into his thoughts for the years leading up to his own passing. Somehow, though, this is a peaceful, hopeful album that looks to the past and its memories, but also to the unknown future without fear.

    The Onion’s Keith Phipps writes:

    American VI: Ain’t No Grave arrives billed as the last fruit of that pairing [of Cash and producer Rick Rubin]. It’s drawn largely from the same sessions that produced American V: A Hundred Highways and recorded at least partly after the death of Cash’s wife, June Carter Cash, as his sight dimmed and his own body failed him for the last time. It’s no surprise that Ain’t No Grave is focused on death and loss. But as usual, Cash uses his Christian faith as the ultimate rebuttal to life’s disappointments. “Ain’t no grave gonna hold my body down,” Cash sings, as the musical setting of the traditional title track sounds ominous tones. Hope was his last act of defiance.

    More Here...
  • What Do You Think About Birth Control?

    Have a question you want us to ask?  Send it to us!

    Birth control is a controversial topic in Christian communities, in part because of its sensitivity as an intimate subject.  There are Christians on both sides of the argument -- some in favor and some in opposition.  Many see the issue as a grey area and have trouble deciding whether or not it is acceptable.  An issue that causes such rifts can't be easily solved, but perhaps we can at least come to an understanding as to why or why not to use birth control.  What are your thoughts?

    What do you think about birth control?
  • Is Luck Biblical?

    By Justin at BeDeviant

    In light of the fast approaching St. Patrcick’s day holiday, I thought we’d take a look at luck. Ok. We’re not talking magic here, but is there any merit to luck on a biblical level?

    You and I both know people who seem to consistently fall effortlessly onto a cushion of good fortune. Conversely, we also know people who can’t seem to buy a break. Sure, attitude is a large part of one’s reaction to their given circumstances, but is there something else to luck?

    UK psychologist Richard Wiseman thinks so. He launched a study on luck. Here’s his description of the survey:

    I placed advertisements in national newspapers and magazines, asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me. Over the years, 400 extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research from all walks of life: the youngest is an 18-year-old student, the oldest an 84-year-old retired accountant.

    The findings [of the study] have revealed that although unlucky people have almost no insight into the real causes of their good and bad luck, their thoughts and behaviour are responsible for much of their fortune.

    More Here...
  • How Do You Live a Life Without Fear?

    I used to live in a state of absolute terror 24 hours a day, seven days a week. I always had a reason to be anxious and worried. If things weren't going according to plan, I feared that my life would be destroyed and I would have no way of fixing things. If things were going according plan, I thought up every possible scenario that could ruin my state of serenity and I'd live in fear of each and every single circumstance.

    Living in fear is not living at all. It's barely surviving. Living in fear means that every second of every day, we're tortured by what could happen, what's going to happen, and how that might leave us in limbo. It's living off of hypothetical circumstances. In hindsight, I see that I created a lot of my own chaos back then. It was my fault that I had such bad indigestion, back pain, and trouble sleeping. These physical symptoms were signs of an emotional, mental, and spiritual unrest in my life. I wasn't dealing with several issues appropriately and they in turn, were dealing with me.

    I think that fear is a healthy response to a dangerous situation. But in excess, living in fear becomes the dangerous situation. You don't think clearly because you probably can't think at all. You expend so much mental energy in worrying, sighing, fantasizing, and slowly deteriorating, that you have very little time to be productive at all. So when you eventually snap out of your fear, you look around and find yourself in the very situation that you were always afraid of: being helpless. More Here...

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